Dear Mr Volont,
I would like to begin by apologising for making the comment of "please do not be mad". It was more of a joke than anything else, because I found it amusing to say seeing as we are in an anger management forum. I suppose I can be 'diabolical' at times, but only in jest, with those whom I get along with. But with hindsight, I can see that this was not necessary and I have now learnt that I should only remain courteous. I am sorry I offended you.
Despite all of that, I do not think that what I said warranted such a severe reaction from yourself. You need only have directly said to me either that you are not mad, or that you are irritated, but being a respectable individual on this anger management forum you did not become angry. This would have been sufficient for me to understand. But I accept that you voiced your exasperation and also accept your judgement that, after measuring my "level", I have nothing to say that you can learn anything from.
However, what I cannot accept is the manner in which you decided to make a vicious attack with a low blow. You decided to take the personal incident that I shared with you seeking advice, and without knowing the full context of the incident, you threw it right back at my face. I did not expect that sort of behaviour from you at all. That is actually quite hurtful, and dare I say it - oh yes I do dare! - it made me a little bit angry. Well let me just tell you that "Mr Powell" was not "giving me a lecture", he just made a rude comment. And it was more than this, he did it openly, which meant that I was publicly humiliated, and he did not think anything of it. In fact, I find that I can actually be quite receptive to learning from others, but only if they speak to me in a respectful manner - without any nasty comments slung around. I even told this to "Mr Powell" - I said that I am open to constructive criticism.
The sad thing is that I happily came to read your reply but when I opened the thread, your post seemed to explode in my face! But because you have been civil thus far, I will forgive this incident and hope that we can move on from it.
With this in mind you should confine yourself to asking why you are wrong, and not trying to convince me that you are right. Butl, what if you think I am Wrong.
I did not come to this forum, or even begin this discussion, in the hopes that I could go around and say who is 'right' or 'wrong'. And I did not expect to be told this either. I was thinking that we would just have an open discussion with different views voiced here so that perhaps we could learn something from it - I would say the same for our other discussion on the other thread - but I now understand that you do not believe you will learn anything from me, so I will stop voicing my ideas. Thank you for your instruction in "not wasting time in hearing the sound of my own voice".
Anyway, to go over it again, You must not get stuck on What anything in a Dream Means, What things Represent. You wouldn't in Real Life, so why get stuck on wondering What a Chair Means in a dream (its something to sit on, or for careless men to lay their Hats upon). Now, about the Story of Joseph. Again this shows you are Not Listening to me. The Jews did not have the First Five Books of the Bible until AFTER Babylon,
About the story of Joseph - I was not referring to the Jewish scriptures or the Bible, so that is irrelevant - but it doesn't matter anyway because you do not believe it, so we'll move away from it. Now this is where I am quite confused, because in your previous post you said that I should focus on what I was doing and why - my actions - and also even on why I was in a tunnel in the first place. That contradicts with what you are now saying, because we shouldn't "get stuck on what anything in a dream means". Surely understanding the tunnel comes with understanding what it represents? No, I know we do not do that in real life, but real life and dreams are completely different. I think that [DISCLAIMER: This is just my opinion - I am not saying everyone should think the same] dreams can relate to real life, as in they can demonstrate something to us or provide wisdom or foresight, but often in an abstract way. I personally want to know if my dream relates to real life, but if you do not think that this is possible or the correct thing to do, that is your own opinion to which you are entitled. Please allow me to have mine.
Now, yes, you were Terrified of being Hurt in this Dream... you call it Betrayed, and now I wonder what you meant... that if you went outside the tunnel, somebody might say something embarrassing? However, lets suppose you were afraid of Physical Harm.
When I said I felt like I was going to be betrayed, it was because I didn't trust that additional 'figure'. Whoever or whatever they were they had betrayed me in the past (I just knew this when I was in the dream) and I was worried that if I let them go into the exit before me they would lock it or something and I would be stuck there, unable to escape. I had let my friend go first with the provisions, so that the 'figure' would not get a chance to steal them. That was what I was afraid of in the dream - being trapped in that place. Nothing more, there was no indication of what was beyond the exit - it centred around just the journey through the tunnel. This is why I believe the dream had some significance. Also, personally I find that vivid dreams are more than just images, they are also packed with emotions - like 4D movies, where the extra dimension is for feelings. Everything that I did there, considering what I saw there and what happenend, and considering I had no extra information, was the correct thing to do. I cannot fault my actions. But if I were to suddenly find out that my friend was really the one not to be trusted - plot twist! - I would know that I should not have let her go first. Anyway, that was most definitely a one-off dream, as far as I can tell, so I do not think there will be any going back to 'do things differently'.
From the Dream Realization that you "Immortal", you can advance to Learning to Fly, to Levitate. To learn how to Fly in a Dream you simply Jump Off of Something Very High, and you can't do that if you are afraid of Dying....So, anyway, you need to work on being Fearless in your Dreams. you need fearlessness. You come across as much too fussy and afraid of Life.
Reading what you said about learning to fly reminded me of The Matrix (have you seen that film?), where Neo, the main character is being taught how to fly by his mentor. I find that very interesting and would love to try it sometime, if I can get into the dream state where I still have control. I also really must try the 'fight back' idea if I have another dream where I am running away from something/someone - I have had many of those. Haha, you may perhaps be right when you say I seem "fussy and afraid of life". I have admitted to having a lack of confidence. I will continue to try and improve on this.
Thank you for your insight.