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Hi Snapped, I know how you feel. I began to resort to self-harm at one point recently. Nothing major, but for the first time I just felt the need to slap myself. I was just so angry at myself. I felt so useless and a failure. I had this constant negative voice that would put me down, driving me into...

Dear Leo, I was not being vicious. I told you already that I do not mean any harm to you nor anyone else, and I do not have any bad intentions by what I say. In fact, I thought that you were being vicious by not acknowledging what I had said, but instead suggesting that people, perhaps me, go around...

Hi Livetowin, Thank you for your additional thoughts! I agree that with anything in life, we make mistakes and we learn from them. And this is where I think in a healthy relationship it is so important to practise apologising on one side and forgiveness on the other - that is both partners should be...

Dear Leo,

How old are you? I only ask because if you are an adult and you consider throwing tantrums - begging, crawling and crying - as conducive to a healthy relationship, you may want to consider asking for some help on the psychology forum…

This message is for anyone reading this thread. If you have read the entire thing from beginning to end then wow! Well done for getting through the whole thing! Or you may have just come here, to the end. Either way, I would just like to suggest to you that you do not just give up on your relations...

Hi, I have had some recent experiences which I feel like I have learnt from. I have written another post about how to try and maintain a relationship. You will find it at the very end of this thread: http://www.uncommonforum.com/viewtopic.php?t=104501 But sometimes it still doesn't work out, so I wo...

Dear Leo, Please understand that when I say I was "diabolical", I was referring to the way I was almost teasing, in a friendly manner, not in a mean-spirited way. This was inspired by the fact that you called me a "proud little Lucifer", and I was acknowledging the fact that I fo...

Dear Mr Volont, I would like to begin by apologising for making the comment of "please do not be mad". It was more of a joke than anything else, because I found it amusing to say seeing as we are in an anger management forum. I suppose I can be 'diabolical' at times, but only in jest, with...

Hi Leo, Have you been to University yet? If Confucius could not figure out a Way to Objectify Morality to some set of Basic Statements, .... then how could you possibly think that some Modern Committee could Whip It Out and say That Wasn’t So Hard? Confucius had said, against the Legalism which you ...

Dear Leo, I'm sorry! Please do not be mad. From my perspective I had not "blown off' your theory. I had thought about it and then just went on to explain a couple of dreams that I had. I thought I had duly acknowledged your theory. In reference to the shared dream you described and your idea of...

Dear Leo, You advocate Law, and Set Protocols to govern all Economic, Social, Political Behaviors. Isn't that what those Black Flag Terrorists want? Apparently I have still not quite drummed into you the Distinction between Morality and the Law... One of the Factors that contribute to a successful C...

Hi Candid. It turns out I can send messages now! Maybe I was just being impatient and needed to wait a couple of days...

I feel like I have unlocked a whole new dimension to this forum.

Dear Leo, Thank you for your well-wishing. I am feeling much better. Now, okay, I have decided to let you ‘win’ your Innate Goodness Argument, but only because it occurred to me that it quite fits with a pet Idea I have had for years, but I never thought about it in terms of “innate goodness”. My No...

Night - i am not a morning person.

Ice cream: salted caramel or mint chocolate chip?

I just noticed that I have reached 30 posts but I am still not able to send private messages. I am a little disappointed...