My ex wife, the woman I loved and mother of my child, left me a couple of years back, for another man.
I always feel an inferiority to him when I think of him. He’s 9 years my senior, taller, has hair (I don’t), tattoos, two sons and a daughter... always seems confident...
In time, I was able to at least somewhat come to terms with myself and the situation. However, something has happened recently that is really killing me.
This man opened up a restaurant, where my ex is working now, and the restaurant is booming. In just a short matter of time, it’s gained excellent online reviews, and I just dropped my daughter off there today, and it was packed...
I feel like such a loser in comparison. I had an online business (wimpy version of a business compared to what he’s done), and it went under a couple years back, shortly before the divorce. The stress definitely lead to issues in the breakup. I now work for someone else.
Taking the whole situation into consideration, the man who took my wife, and who my daughter is around all the time, has been able to set up a business that is just taking off... the opposite of what happened with mine.
He’s the winner, I’m the loser........
Help me see this in a better light please....