Hi Julius,
OH! It was YOUR Video! You Produced it! I'm so terribly sorry that I blew it off... I thought it was just 'some' video recommendation.
Well, I watched it long enough to see what you were doing. I had studied hypnosis theory and the theory behind Subliminal Suggestion, and so I had a pretty good idea of what you were doing. Your Video is also about just the right length. I take several naps during the day, but it often takes me about 10 minutes just to settle down, and I can spend that 10 minutes watching your Video. I will let you know if I notice any changes.
Now regarding what you mentioned about meditation... observing and focusing on the space between intrusive thoughts... well, that may be true in a sense, but I have found that Any Active Conscious Re-direction of the Mind almost Always INVITES more intrusive thoughts. One has to NOT Observe. One might be Aware, but it has to be a Passive Awareness. I find that I begin to fall into a light sleep the moment Images start popping up that are totally independent of my will... my thought process. I would say that I am an Observer, but Actively Observing these First Hypnogogic Images is enough to put a stop to them. the Waking Consciousness Cannot Be Any Part of It. Now, yes, I am talking about Naps, but I remember what Ram Das had said about Meditation --- that his Great Aunt used to Meditation every day... she called it her Afternoon Nap.
Oh, did I ever tell you, I have a darling wonderful Cat... she was a feral, but I had been putting food out for the Mother and so the Kitten knew me all her life. She was and is the most Regal little Thing Imaginable. But there is a bit of an irony in regards to her health -- she, unlike any other cat I have ever known, gets gassy and sometimes accidentally poops on the floor. Now, yes, that is considered as unpleasant by most people. But I simply do not allow it to affect my Attitude toward her. I treat those messes as though they had simply spontaneously occurred. the Cat is very proud and would have been Very Embarrassed had I made a big deal about cleaning up these messes.
anyway, my Point here is that a Man must confront his Life Circumstances as they come. There is No Need to be 'Positive' as long as one is Objective and Focused on dealing with the problems as effectively as possible.
Isn't it True that Positive Thinking People experience DISAPPOINTMENT in a More Intense Way -- They Take a Great Fall from their Heightened Expectations... when Life turns Sour or there are Personal Tragedies. Objective People are also affected by adverse circumstances, but since they half-expect Adversity, it seldom leads to the kind of Depression that comes in the wake of Disappointment.
Wow! We are actually Talking!
JuliusFawcett wrote:OK lets address a few points.
As you correctly point out, sometimes not thinking is nice, it's peaceful, and this is possible, if not completely shutting down the chattering internal dialogue, at least to be able to observe it at a distance, and focus on the space between intrusive thoughts and so that space can grow. This is a well trodden path in the practice of meditation.
And thinking is useful, it is expressive, creative and often the solution to challenges in our lives, and it is useful to be careful about the thoughts that we choose, because each of them causes an actual biochemical response in our bodies. Looking at the world through rose tinted glasses is fun. I am sure that you may say that this is not realistic, and here is an example of how it is. A dog has made a mess on the pavement. You can see it, I can see it, it is definitely there. Looking up, there is a rainbow, you can see it, I can see it, it is definitely there. I continue to look at the rainbow, I wallow in it, I celebrate it, I enjoy the biochemical response my body gives up to the joy of it. I could moan about the dog mess on the floor, and I don't, not because I am unrealistic, I just like to focus on the parts of my life that make me feel good.
In a world where so many of the narratives are powered by people who are not happy to be alive, it is useful to create the antidote by conditioning our brains to enjoy the fact that we are happy to be alive. The video I linked to earlier in this thread is one that I not only created, but have used hundreds of times to help reprogram my brain to focus on rainbows and not dogs mess. You may consider this useless, after all, it is possible that I will tread in the dogs mess while looking at rainbows. My answer to that is simple, consider the analogy of driving a racing car. When approaching a walled bend, it is very important to not get fixated by the wall, instead the racing driver's best chances of avoiding a crash is if he looks away from the wall and instead focuses on the path to safety.
I looked at dogs mess and walls for long enough to realise that my biochemical response to these was either to feel angry or feel depressed. Both of these sensations were no good for my relationships or my health. I have had enough of those biochemical responses, so now I choose the escape path, the rainbow. It takes courage to do this, courage that is easy when the alternative was literally killing me. So I decided to change, and I don't look back at the walls or the dog messes, I look forward to enjoying every day. To accept everything as it is, to forgive unconditionally, to be honest to myself in the moment, to condition my mind to love my existence, because anything else is second best (for me). Maybe you just have not had enough at staring at the dog mess?