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Leo Volont wrote:I hope Collard's Councilor has a Magic Wand... the Big Deluxe Version.

wow...I come for help to prevent myself from snapping someone's f***ing neck and that equals being a drama queen?

you really are a piece of sh** aren't you?

Collard, I remember you. You posted before, and I answered. what happened to all that? You are like the Perpetual New Poster. But you've been Here for more than a half year now. When are you going to decide to start DOING something about your Anger instead of just talking about it... trying to milk...

Collard, I remember you. You posted before, and I answered. what happened to all that? You are like the Perpetual New Poster. But you've been Here for more than a half year now. When are you going to decide to start DOING something about your Anger instead of just talking about it... trying to milk...

tried to remember the values I was taught. And because of that I have raging thoughts, wishing that I had gave in to anger. Oke here we go Collard. Please write down the values you are talking about. And also write down why they are making you raging and angry. Make it as easy as possible for yours...

Collard, I remember you. You posted before, and I answered. what happened to all that? You are like the Perpetual New Poster. But you've been Here for more than a half year now. When are you going to decide to start DOING something about your Anger instead of just talking about it... trying to milk...

If I may summarize I see these steps: * Someone was hindering you in a certain way. You didn't like it. * You confront the other with his behavior * He wasn't reacting as you expected * You reacted very disrespectful * In the end you got the punishment in stead of him. Actually you was humbling you...

About the roommate situation, I wanted to move out months ago but there wasn't in more rooms. Also my first thoughts weren't "how could he do this to me and be so disrespectful?"; it was more like " this motherf****r better pray to God I move before I loose my sh** and break his f***i...

It sounds to me that you have learned that "a good Christian" is never angry, but always nice, happy and forgiving. Or maybe your family keeped the show up for the outside world, while they don't have talked about their real issues. Anger is just an emotion, so nothing wrong with that. It...

Now I've been on this site a while and had a few posts about my intrusive thoughts and anger. A lot of your replies really help me and my anger has lessen over this year. I don't usually overly obsess with moments of anger, embarrassment, or weakness as much as I used to. When I get intrusive though...

could these people represent other people who you do care for/are important in your life? None of them are family or past romantic relationships. The people that I get these thoughts about are either someone I no longer give a sh** about or everything is good between us. If I have any moment of wea...

Dear Collard, Yes, you are not the only one whose mind gets stuck in a rut of Useless and Irrelevant Thinking, though the Violence and Cruelty that characterize some of the Thoughts that trouble you would seem to be Out of the Ordinary in a very disturbing way. Hmmmm… it makes me wonder whether you...

Good! in fact, Great! Progress IS Progress. But, YES, it should be obvious to you that You Are No Longer Allowed ANY Graphic Violence. No Violent Games, and NO Action Movies. You need to pretend you are a Chick for a while!... or Not Quite That Bad.... Sappy Romantic Movies might be too much for you...

Counting up a hundred when I get these thoughts has been something I've been trying for the last month and seems to becoming more effective. Also I do play violent video games and watch graphic films, but I had a violent temper before that. People I had problems with (99% of everyone I know) always ...

Why do I have intrusive and angry thoughts at events or peoples I don't give a sh** about? Over the past year I've been suffering from unwanted and intrusive thoughts and its finally starting wind down. I would obsess all day over events and people wishing that I would have seriously hurt or even ki...

Yeah this stuff is tricky cuz a lot of times bad habits slowly sneak up until they all of a sudden take up a huge amount of our time or get out of control. I had to learn this the hard way with smoking weed (why I'm here) but if you can stay away from it I've heard there are all kinds of positive b...