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Moving On: My Contact Info

To members of UCF, I appreciate the years we have spent together on this forum. It has been a great place to discuss so many issues. That said, all good things must come to an end and it is time for me to move on. I thought about acknowledging individual members that have made an impact on my life, ...
by Richard@DecisionSkills
Wed Feb 23, 2022 3:15 pm
 
Forum: Light Lounge
Topic: Moving On: My Contact Info
Replies: 18
Views: 1237

Re: A Few Words On Censorship

The World Jewish Association thinks it's absolutely right that Germany and any other country that was connected to the holocaust should owe a debt for their involvement... they have claimed hundreds of millions in damages. Is that odd? I think there is a bit of a difference between atrocities of a ...
by Richard@DecisionSkills
Tue Feb 22, 2022 11:23 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: A Few Words On Censorship
Replies: 1253
Views: 96677

Re: A Few Words On Censorship

It always strikes me as odd, though, that Germany killed millions…and today seems to have gained status. Russia lost 20 million fighting Hitler and still many people live in poverty. Do you believe the generation of today owes the debts of the generation that committed those acts roughly 80 years a...
by Richard@DecisionSkills
Tue Feb 22, 2022 2:08 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: A Few Words On Censorship
Replies: 1253
Views: 96677

Re: A Few Words On Censorship

I was thinking about "reality" late into the night. Triggered by Zen philosophy. I think very many of us live in our own reality - and that includes me too. The riddle is to find the real Candid and Tokeless amongst the bias of their own, subjective realities. Yes, we all live in our own ...
by Richard@DecisionSkills
Mon Feb 21, 2022 11:08 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: A Few Words On Censorship
Replies: 1253
Views: 96677

Re: How can we handle these conflicts better?

What are your guys thoughts on what I covered here? My thoughts are what in the hell is wrong with YOU? You keep focusing on her. Stop it. Focus on what is screwed up in your own head. You are the one that for some crazy reason thought it would be a good idea to post your thoughts about all the pro...
by Richard@DecisionSkills
Mon Feb 21, 2022 7:16 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How can we handle these conflicts better?
Replies: 35
Views: 2309

Re: A Few Words On Censorship

…she often scores good points. David, whatever “good points” are scored become wasted when those points are then conflated with some absolutely demented delusional hyperbolic horseshit. That people have been victimized by their own governments is a good point. But that point is lost when 2 addition...
by Richard@DecisionSkills
Mon Feb 21, 2022 2:50 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: A Few Words On Censorship
Replies: 1253
Views: 96677

Re: Being an over-giver

…it just hurts to see that they sometimes won’t do for me what I would naturally do for them… You see yourself as a giver. But you are not a giver in the true sense, because your giving comes with strings attached. Read what you wrote. Read it again. Read it again. You expect others to do for you. ...
by Richard@DecisionSkills
Sun Feb 20, 2022 7:48 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Being an over-giver
Replies: 2
Views: 339

Re: A Few Words On Censorship

There's masses of evidence; I'm spending too many of my days reviewing it. That's what's kept me away from the forum. It's definitely ON, no matter what Reuters says. This is a thread about censorship, right? So which is it Candid. Is there “masses of evidence”? Or is it censorship? You don’t belie...
by Richard@DecisionSkills
Sun Feb 20, 2022 7:33 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: A Few Words On Censorship
Replies: 1253
Views: 96677

Re: Normal psychological behavour

Yes. The man will naturally be deterred. Whatever a job advert requests, people will naturally be deterred if they don't meet the requirement. For example, if the job requires a college education, the person without a college education will be deterred. Why waste your time applying for a job that yo...
by Richard@DecisionSkills
Sat Feb 19, 2022 5:55 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: Normal psychological behavour
Replies: 2
Views: 430

Re: Borderline personality disorder

,,,i really want to be a doctor.... What type of doctor? Why? How big is your family? What do your parents do? How about your brothers and sisters? I feel extremely guilty and suicidal, they were my babies, my responsibility and i let them die. I am a monster, i don't deserve to have pets. You live...
by Richard@DecisionSkills
Fri Feb 18, 2022 7:40 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: Borderline personality disorder
Replies: 5
Views: 495

Re: Borderline personality disorder

I'm in med school How old are you and how long have you been in med school? Is it possible that your stress would lower if instead of placing unnecessary stress on yourself, you went to work at a pet store and used the money from work to leave home? My guess, based on the very little information yo...
by Richard@DecisionSkills
Fri Feb 18, 2022 5:02 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: Borderline personality disorder
Replies: 5
Views: 495

Re: What i want in life

Porn will not cleanse your spirit.
by Richard@DecisionSkills
Thu Feb 17, 2022 9:45 pm
 
Forum: Light Lounge
Topic: What i want in life
Replies: 3
Views: 383

Re: 28 months along

Richard wants to express opinions on experiences he has not experienced. He believes all fear is equal. He believes in a sink or swim mentality. All or nothing. Kind and unkind. There is no inbetween. There is no grades of progress, or exposure. Drive the car for the first time on your own, or fail...
by Richard@DecisionSkills
Thu Feb 17, 2022 3:29 am
 
Forum: Addictions
Topic: 28 months along
Replies: 100
Views: 6872

Re: 28 months along

Should Graham sit in a dark room? :D It wouldn’t hurt. Graham wants to confront his fears on his own terms. This is understandable, but also not necessarily kind. Some parents are criticized for throwing their kid in the swimming pool. It seems unkind. The fear of the unknown, of drowning, of the t...
by Richard@DecisionSkills
Thu Feb 17, 2022 1:34 am
 
Forum: Addictions
Topic: 28 months along
Replies: 100
Views: 6872

Re: 28 months along

Richard. Stop it! Graham. Stop it! It’s been 28 months. I understand that you are focused on you and that your nightlight is only for you. But maybe, just maybe this thread and conversation isn’t only about you. Maybe, given it is a public forum it is a conversation to be generalized to many people...
by Richard@DecisionSkills
Thu Feb 17, 2022 1:09 am
 
Forum: Addictions
Topic: 28 months along
Replies: 100
Views: 6872
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