by laureat » Sat Apr 23, 2016 2:08 am
I assume that people around you have made negative statements about guitar so now you don't really feel proud when people see that you play guitar , you feel like you want to hide it
I know how that feels because something similar has happened to me before I was kinda not proud of walking the dog because where I live most of people are no dog fans, and I was getting lots of negative statements like every week someone was telling me something like : dog smells dog do this, dog do that, so much of effort trying to lead me to quit on my DOG but they never made such effort to lead me quit SMOKING ,that is extreme stupid
but what you should understand is that, its not up to other people to decide for me or you if something is cool or not, I decide that for myself if its cool I love dogs and I am proud to walk a pack of dogs even when others try to change how I feel about that, I will show them how they are supposed to feel about dogs, I will show the love, the excitement the love and everything that they are missing and the best way to show them is when they see me enjoy
people do with these negative statements they try to change how you feel about guitar, how you feel about the dog about a friend, about your wife, about your job , they will always try to give a negative touch maybe unconsciously or whatsoever is that, but is up to you to protect your important things in life, how you feel about them and not allow someone else to add negative feelings there
guitar is cool man, its something you should feel proud about , its something you should love, the creativity and all that, you should not allow someone else to make you feel negative about it, you should feel good about it and show to the people how you are supposed to feel about the guitar,