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If I'm ever feeling low about myself, I like to read stories of people who felt similarly, but slowly pulled themselves out.

I will explain my situation, if somebody can help me and be completely honest and tell me what mistake I'm making it would help me out alot. I don't seem to be worth anything to people. I am a bit awkward socially because I am stressed the whole time around people cos I don't know if they can tell ...

entrepreneur: It seems to me you are an HSP - a highly sensitive person - which is not a bad thing at all, but can be overwhelming if you're not aware. I think your first step here is to stop feeling sorry for yourself. A lot of what I'm here is a lot of blaming: "My parents are abusive," ...

so how do i handle people judging me? could you help me in this? ex- when some people criticize me or insult me? a thought comes in my mind- they are criticizing me so there must be a reason behind it.i must have done something wrong. then i start searching for evidence. sometimes i get it and some...

I think the first step is that you have to accept him for who he is. If your brother doesn't feel accepted, then he won't feel comfortable enough to get out of his comfort zone. Interact with your brother more. Try to connect with him with activities or shows that he watches. Ask him questions about...

I think you are aware of how disruptive people with BPD are. With any kind of stability that exists, they will seek to ruin it. The big issue is that instability is infectious: a person who is unstable tends to make others more unstable. She's already disrupting your life and is making you feel inse...

Now I'm still left feeling completely attacked and that he thinks I'm a selfish bitch that gets pissed when he helps other people - which he basically inferred from what he said. Am I out of line? Or "in the wrong" here? I really don't know how to deal with this situation, especially sinc...

Hello all, In the past 9 years I didn't have any healthy friendship. I always felt as I'm missing the beautiful years of my life.. and the joy. But now, when I close to be 22 ( in 3 weeks) I feel so lonely. Deep in my heart I feel the pain... Question is: how to build a healthy strong relationship\...

Sounds like OCD. Compulsive thoughts. My question to you would be: why do you think it's transgender that your subconscious has latched onto?

Sounds like pity. Deep pity. You feel sorry for him. It's probably healthy that you feel this way, since it means you don't hold resentment towards him.

Hi Beta, Its always so nice to talk with you, but, well, I don't think we should discuss THIS in front of the Children, so to speak. But to give the readers a sense of what I am thinking about all of this, well, my Reply was crafted in order to have an Effect on the Original Poster. I really did no...

Leo, First, I'm not advising the OP to shift blame from herself to her partner. It's not her partner's fault (or her own for that matter) that she needs validation. All I'm advising her to do is take responsibility for fulfilling her own needs by creating a safe, judgment-free environment where she ...

I haven't made any NEW friends in a long time. I've joined some clubs/activities and met people and made a bunch of acquaintances. The same goes for my job. But I haven't pushed through the barrier and initiated hang outs. I think I'm scared of being rejected or not liked. Or maybe I don't really w...

It sounds to me that the source of your anger is feeling invalidated. It's very common in relationships for the woman to feel as if her opinion or feelings don't matter to her partner. If this happens enough, then women will tend to resort to behavior that looks "irrational" (to men at lea...

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Richard@DecisionSkills wrote:Yes, her Answer is not exactly MAGIC... BUT it might be exactly what people are REALLY here asking for... they just want to TALK.

I'm not exactly sure who you're referencing here by "her ANSWER," but I just want to clarify for you: I am a guy, not a girl.