Roady wrote:
It sounds to me that you have learned that "a good Christian" is never angry, but always nice, happy and forgiving.
Or maybe your family keeped the show up for the outside world, while they don't have talked about their real issues.
Anger is just an emotion, so nothing wrong with that. It can be a problem if anger is expressed in the wrong way, hurting and damaging others.
It may help you if you can describe your intrusive thoughts for yourself if you are in a certain situation where your anger is triggered. It may help you if you write it down if you are at home at a quiet place. It really helps if you write it down.
For sure it's something about your past. Don't suppress anything, neither your anger, but try to found out what exactly is the root of your anger.
Can you explain what exactly is triggering your anger when you are talking with others.?
thanks for the reply. I've been praying. Never thought of writing my problems down. (Mostly due to the fact I don't want my friend or family think I'm some psychopath, since I'm already known for my anger with people real close to me, but I'll try it).
Half the time I'm on my phone or laptop, is looking at news. Especially as a black teen in america (same age as Travyon Martin would have been), family, friends, and I have always been keeping an eye on the racial tension in America, making sure I'm keeping up with reality despite what the news tries to cover.
Also, trust me Christian schools are as bad as public. We had problems with drugs, sex, fights, liquor, your name it. During one of senior bible classes, the pastor/teacher went on a rant on how the girls at my school are known for the best blowjobs in the area, preaching oral sex breaks God's commandments. I even had a girl in my biology class get bored and asked out loud how would I **** her or any of the other girls in class with the teacher a couple feet away. I overheard her thanking God she stayed a virgin right before graduation.
Also for the trigger question, for example, one of the things I hate the most is when people attack my character, especially if t'm not taken seriously. I got in the arguement with my former college roommate about that and he just laughed in my face after I confronted him using vape in the room to the point that I couldn't even stay in there because of the smell. So I started cursing him out, blasting loud music like he does to me when I study. Next day, I'm the big angry black man in the dorm with uncontrollable issues, people won't even look me in the face. That idiot has been treating me with absolutely no respect yet I'm getting in trouble. I wanted to beat the sh** out of him so f***ing bad, but instead the situation got so bad when ended up meeting the housing advisor on campus, I ended up apologizing for my mistakes, worked out out our issues, back to being cool with each other. Yet I have raging thoughts wishing I would have f***ing assaulted him when I had the chance, especially as it seem as if I'm letting a white man getting away with treating like some nigga. Yet I did the Christian thing for some unexplained reason, now I regret it.