Try to make this short. I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years now and the last year or so i have started having feelings for her bothers wife, which i guess would be my sister in law. They have 2 kids, we dont have any.. The wife finally talked to me about these feelings and said she has these same feelings towards me. We have flirted alot in the past, but never acted on our feelings. But I feel that even though these are feelings, i feel im not fully commited my realationship with my girlfriend.
Knowing we both have feelings for each other and its very tough now, knowing she has these same feelings.. How can i move past these feelings? I know there not right and how could we ever be a couple isnt right. She says when i wear a certain pair of jeans its hard to resist me. But sometimes just seeing her brings these feelings back to me. But I cant just avoid family things and stop seeing her kids, etc.
Any suggestions how I can move past this feeling i have in my head towards her?