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I feel bad , Candid and Richard I even made this post, bc most of my venting is really no big deal, and Im very happy for this mom and her child to be in my life, just was a little---fazzeled by a few things..and Im protective with my kid and dont like the comparison game.....but again ppl would hav...

"I’m not so sure. Candy is the one that keeps a tally of who owes who. Candy is the one that expects if she does XYZ then she is owed friendship. This other woman might have no idea that Candy is keeping score. She just knows Candy as a person that is constantly willing to help and is oblivious...

ohh boy, lol I forgot how it goes on here...no Im not keeping score but Iam very much aware of the phrase treat others how you want to be treated. I think im ok to wonder what to do ---this mother is hard to figure out sometimes is all and I dont want to mold my life in a way that helps hers if its ...

Also, my kid bday is 4 days before her kid bday...so typically i have her bday a weekend prior...but this year and next...her bday is middle of week, which would leave that coming weekend to have it (weekend prior is a major holiday)..and the other moms child bday is at the end of that weekend....so...

Long time no see all! Hope everyone is well! I need advice, didnt know where to put it. Ill TRY to keep it short. To fill you in: - childs mom (whom at first judged my kid and myself for our apparences, etc) has been reaching out to me more because our kids are best friends, and within the past few ...

Candid I don't think you would. Again like my husband, you rarely find connection. It's threatening to you, as you're well aware. I find connection very easily but probably with a false front. I have friends up and down the east coast of Australia as well as friends here in Reading and the aforement...

Hi Candid, Im sorry to hear you miss your father as well. I know times such as this probably bring up emotions for both you and I, as it seems the fathers in our lives, were the only sense of normal? ( I get this bc of the relationship you mentioned with your mom, and the loaded gun with mine ha)......

no, haha the kiddo has nothing to do with the adaptation, infact---actually it would be a huge benefit to her because my husband would be more emotionally mature for both of us. What I meant by it might affect her was, if I decided to up and leave right now, or next year...just pack up and go ...THA...

Hi Richard, Im def not using the kid as a excuse, I know this is my choice and right now I choose what it best for all of us--but, when and if it comes time to where certain things I do do not directly affect her, and (if things and I hope they dont--get worse as far as no emotional understanding if...

Yes it is hard times, it sounds like your doing ok which is a lot considering how you were feeling mentally. Its not so bad right now but I do worry how long it will last and the after math. Just one day at a time.

Have you tried downloading a AI Text bot app on your phone??? You can text and talk for as long as you want and get a response..forever and ever. Might help in the regard that you just want conversation without remedy or end reason. Hope you and your mom are well. Are you still working? Im not...jus...

Hi Richard, Im so confused myself of your post, I think we misunderstand each other a bit, but that's ok. I just made this post to reach out to see if anyone is feeling a little "better" since the self distancing ordeal. (lack of money/jobs and health aside.) I was trying to say I see the ...

Hi Richard, Its funny you mentioned self reflection, I had that moment when in the mist of my feeling the way I was with my husband, I broke down in the store (they played a song called heartattack) and BAM_- floodgates. Turns out, most of whatever it was I was feeling, was--- I just missed my dad. ...

Old readers know about my prior posts, but to the new readers, need advice. I ask very little out of my relationship..very little. I dont ask for gifts, birthdays, anniverseries, flowers....I stopped wishing for any form of pedestal when it comes to group outings as Im always left in the background,...

I appreciate your feedback. I dunno, this just strengthens my position on introvertness. I feel so much better physically and mentally, I feel happier. Traffic is good, the noise has gone waaay down, shopping isnt too bad unless its the grocery store. People are drawing happy things with chalk on si...