How to deal mental confusion caused by repressed sexual desi

How about you go to the coffee shop (or green tea shop) and talk to a woman?

When my confusion eases why not? But i dont think its a very good idea in this corona environment.

People are still meeting for a coffee here in the UK. Are you not able to do that?

Maybe if i feel good currently im not stable

So you want me to do that now?

Candid wrote:How about you go to the coffee shop (or green tea shop) and talk to a woman?

And a vegeterian pizza after coffee. I havent eaten anything all daym

Yes, good idea. Surely it would cheer you up to get out and have a conversation with ANYONE?

Sorry but um really not in the mood to go out. Maybe i have a walk later.

You're never in the mood, that's the problem. You've allowed yourself to become afraid of talking to people.

If you consider it part of your journey to getting what you want, and keep practising being among people, you'll lose your fear. You have to change your habits (such as asking for help from internet strangers) and spend time with people who might actually be able to help you.There's no other way.

Passively waiting for Life to come to you will mean you continue feeling WORSE for another ten years. And then what?

Talking to strangers out was a main problem of me tried hard got mad but couldnt no need to force some people are introvert and must acceot that forcing causes more harm from my point of view. I dont consider people here strangers. I had so hard days that i dont have many expectations avoiding trouble is enough.

But thank you for your attention and time.

desperate788 wrote:some people are introvert and must acceot that

But you DON'T accept it. You'e here complaining every day.

i dont have many expectations

If you didn't have expectations, there'd be nothing to complain about. And yet you do.

avoiding trouble is enough.

Avoiding trouble means avoiding LIFE, desperate. Learning to handle things going wrong is a vital part of maturity.

Besides, we're not talking about trouble. We're talking about you having one or two real-life relationships.

I dont complain about not having friends thats not important my problem is handling my job something which i have to do. I had sxpectations i made parties wanted to go abroad bought video games lisfened music all was failure now i truely have no expectation last shock is i may be autistic all i want is rest peace till the end of my life avoiding possible dangers. Im genuine. I dont need a relation i wanted to but i wasnt ready i got bored i dont want sorry if i bore you im very afraid to lose you because of my odd behaviour but you know how much i suffered

desperate788 wrote:I dont complain about not having friends thats not important

The thread is about repressed sexual desire. It wouldn't be a problem if you had a parter, would it? But in order to do that you need to talk to people.

all i want is rest peace till the end of my life avoiding possible dangers.

No one gets that. Avoiding possible danger is avoiding life.

... but you know how much i suffered

Actually I don't. I don't know what you've suffered, you don't know what I've suffered, and neither of us knows what other people on the forum have suffered. Suffering is a part of life.