Hamming wrote:For me it looks like it matters if they are good or not. I even want to fight them and show them their place who are bad. Especially I want to criticize them for doing bad things.
Why do you think it does not matter form me?
Because you worship them Hamming. You worship the guy who treats people like an a$$hole because he is a "high achiever". It's bull$hit Hamming. You say it matters to you...maybe you truly in your heart think that it matters to you...but your actions betray you.
In other words, you are judged by your actions not your thoughts. Your thoughts might be that you value the good and want to fight the bad. BUT, your actual behaviors are to worship the a$$hole for flesh/money that they have.
And I'm not talking about this single example. For years you worship the man that is a "player" capable of picking up women and driving a nice car. You seek advice on this forum how to be more like the very jerks you claim to dislike. It's a lie Hamming. You are lying to yourself.
Hamming wrote:I am not sure if I worship the woman as much just some. About wealth - not sure why is it bad. And if you say I should avoid assholes, the wealth help it.
So you prove my point. You don't see what is wrong with your values, with your constant worship of flesh and money. That's all you post about.
You don't need money to avoid a$$holes Hamming. All you have to do is stop hanging around clubs, bars, and putting yourself in the circle of other worshippers of flesh and money. It's really that simple. Choose to hang out with other people that don't worship what you worship and your life will change. Who knows, you will probably find a nice woman that isn't a member of the cult of flesh and money.
In other words, you are creating your own outcomes by idolizing men that are the very thing you pretend that you do not like.
You know why a man in the flesh/money cult treats you like a lesser person Hamming? Because it makes this man appear more attractive to the women that see him treat you this way. It is also a warning to other men. Some women, those that also worship flesh and money, see you as the lesser man. Instead of physical dominance, he dominates you verbally.
It is the same as an ape in the wild thumping his chest and appearing aggressive. You are the ape that tries to thump your just but then sulks and walks away. But you don't have to be that ape Hamming! You know why? Because you are a human. Unlike apes, you have the choice to not play the stupid game of flesh/money.