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Btw about clubs and bars - I think not all people attending them are bad people. They can be normal people, just wanting to dance and see colors and relax.

The worship of women and wealth is something you should reconsider. I was retinking this, and now I think - I like talking with woman who are not assholes. Just dont like to be slave to them. Because you worship them Hamming. You worship the guy who treats people like an a$$hole because he is a &qu...

Yes, it is your issue. It would be bad policy to change jobs because you can't get along with one or two people, especially for someone with so many posts on the board about not getting along with people. It means stay aloof around people who clearly don't like you. Stay away from them if you can. ...

This morning I decided to google "how to deal with assholes". And found this: https://lifehacker.com/how-to-deal-with-assholes-1822977174 Sutton suggests taking one of five strategies: [*] Don’t take it personally. [*] Decide that you’re going to find the a**hole hilarious. (It’s best to k...

You have to ger along with workmates, but you don't have to like them or get into conversation over and above communication about work. Nor do you have to hang around people you don't like. But I don't think that's the problem. You do like these people. You feel hurt when they show they don't like ...

There is also friends friend, lets call him A who regurarly insults me. I think I try to not be insulted when it is a joke, but it looks like he is not having intentions of joking but he does that to hurt me, I dont know. Or to feel smarter. He is interesting man and high achiever in carrer so it is...

How about forget her? Why pursue someone who doesn't like you? There are plenty of people out there who will. 1. She is my friends wife, I have to get along with her. 2. Even if she would be random girl - its about improving social skills. Sometimes we cannot choose or the cost of choice is big. Fo...

To me it's unacceptable that one-third of the world's people are starving or can't access clean water while another one-third expect the best of everything. The question is why is the abundance of resources not distributed or provided? Why is there lack of access to the abundant supply? Children we...

What's your purpose Hamming? My purpose I guess is to live happy life, live long and be in good health till I die so I could enjoy life. Also I wish bad people would be put where their place is. But thats too big goal, plus risky. But I am trying to support sometimes fighting against bad people by ...

What are the pillars of a community Hamming? What are the things that drive our behaviors?

pleasure drives our behaviour I think.

I saw there is this topic but is locked, so creating new one. Sometimes there thoughts came - what is the purpose to work hard if you will dies in about 50 years anyway. And all this work will be for nothing/for others. I think the purpose is to enjoy life. Even this is not useful, but at least it f...

Candid wrote:Sounds like you need better friends.

I was thinking about it lot of times.

No? Well, maybe you can get your head around the idea that sometimes, changing the subject is just plain rude.

sometimes it might make sense. But in this situation, I just dont get

They can have rules. But I cannot. Sounds like not equal.

Not necessarily. You need to trust yourself, first and foremost, and ask yourself questions. I would propose: Am I happier believing in god, or happier not? It is probably equal. I am unhappy when I make wrong decition and burn in hell. If I choose to believe - I am unhappy if I try hard to live by...

This shows breathtaking insensitivity. If someone you love died this morning, will you be glad to see a 'friend' who insists on knowing what you think of the latest action movie? Will you feel immediate relief, and forget the sadness of loss? I dont get why is this breathtaking insensitivity. Nobod...