It's been a long time coming, but I finally have the courage to reach out about this. About three years ago my wife had a partial hysterectomy, took everything except the ovaries. It was medically necessary. Since then, she has lost a tremendous amount of weight and gotten into very good physical condition.
But there is a big downside. She has also become very emotionless and angry towards me. She is distant and unresponsive, I feel like I have become her enemy. We have not had sex in almost 2 years and she has begun hiding things from me and I have caught her in a few lies, I have never confronted her about it though. I feel like she cannot even stand to be in the same room with me sometimes.
We had 16 years of a great marriage, we were happy and never fought. We have two wonderful children together. But since the hysterectomy, our marriage has gone straight downhill and she has become a very angry and defensive woman towards me.
I feel like I need to end things for everyone's sake before it gets any worse but I am still in love with her. I am rapidly losing hope she will ever come back to me. Is this a common side effect of a hysterectomy?