Hamming wrote:If they are not lieing then I will go to heaven or to hell. Or there is purgatory in between to fix things before going to heaven.
I'm guessing you were raised in Catholicism. Doesn't matter. Far as I can tell, all the major religions started as 1) an attempt to account for the origin of humans,
now long discredited; and 2) a way of controlling populations by fear. Catholics are particularly good at this, terrifying people into absurd rituals while amassing a fortune and, in too many cases, kiddie-fiddling on the side.
Best I can do is live by my own principles, which naturally I consider sound. When the heart stops beating, the lungs stop breathing and the blood stops circulating, it makes no
physical sense that the mind should go on suffering. Heaven, for those who believe they're headed there, is a pretty idea. It's extremely difficult to imagine non-existence. After all, personal experience tells me I've always been here, But I find it hard to believe I'll see all my loved ones, and recognise them, at some great tea-party in the sky.
You appear to believe you're a bad person in need of punishment "to fix things". Best you can do is stop doing the things you consider wrong, and focus on doing what matters to you and feels right. This is the basis of self-esteem.
I'm very much aware of the heaven or hell (or mixture of the two) people generate
in our own minds. That's where heaven and hell are, for me. And if for argument's sake there
is continuity of the spirit, it strikes me as highly likely our experience will be whatever we've practised all our lives.
I have frequently been tormented
in my own mind for my 'sins'. Being bad-tempered or hurtful feels bad. Being helpful and loving feels good. To me, feels good
is good, and feels bad
is bad.
I hope in heaven everyhthng will be good and fun, not bad things like in earth.
There's a saying: as above, so below. Mentally healthy people find
this life "good and fun". "Bad things" tend to emanate from unhappy people. If you're happy, you wouldn't dream of robbing or killing someone, you don't need to cheat, you use good judgment in the matter of speaking truth or lies. But this is not to divide people into good and bad. We're all a mixture of both, all doing our best with what we know.
I have no idea how it is possible to burn forewer but God can make you heal for a bit and you burn again , then heal a bit and you burn again and you feel the pain forever.
Sure -- but what a monster! I want nothing to do with any "god" like that.
I am not sure what to think. What I know that killing yourself is also a sin as killing other people and you go to hell.
Yet religion has led to more killing and associated suffering than all other reasons put together. There are wars in the Hindu Bhagavad Gita as well as the Christian Bible, in which the warriors and victors are glorified by God. Why do you suppose that is? Might it not be because the control of human life suited whoever wrote those books?
And I must correct you. You do
not 'know' that killing yourself or others is a sin; it's what you've been told. You can only 'know' from personal experience. In private homes and hospitals all over the world, compassionate people administer overdoses of painkiller to people whose suffering is beyond endurance, and who have no hope of recovery. Do you think that sinful? Have you ever watched someone painfully struggling for each breath?
Further, several first-world countries are reconsidering the laws that forbid assisted suicide. As things stand, if you are in unendurable pain and no longer physically able to finish yourself off, anyone who helps you will be charged with murder.
If life is a gift, surely we must have the right to dispose of it. Something we're forced to accept isn't a gift but a burden. It isn't some god that insists we live and endure to the end; it's government law-makers for whom every citizen, no matter how incapacitated, represents GDP.
Who knows if not religion, maybe I would have killed myself during bad times.
I suspect what you mean by this is that the Fear of God prevented you, and I'm sorry to hear it. If you must have a God, Hamming, why not make It a good one who adores you and has your best interests at heart? Then you can set up a dialogue with It, as many have done before you, and It will turn your life around. Trade fear for faith, it's a happier take.
Fortunately the Muslim is no longer with us. The wise heads of the forum got rid of him.