Hello Everyone, my wife and I decided last night to quit our habitual habit of smoking marijuana for the last 18 years. For the past 7 years we have been smoking $120.00 per week! I can't believe we found this forum and reading all of your posts has been amazing. Last night we laughed so
many times about how everything other people in this crazy world were going through was the same as what we are going through. We have tried to quit 5 to 6 times before, but always went back. We would say its because work sucked, or the winter wasn't done and that sucks, it doesn't mess you up like real drugs. How many times are we going to lie to ourselves. For what--a f***ing plant. It is hard for me to admit a plant has control over how I think and feel and relate to the world. I think the world won't make spiritual sense If I quit. I think I won't play my acoustic guitar anymore or have that creative urge to write songs. But I am looking past that and the truth is that I get high and play a little bit and then just put it down. I am not even finishing any of the songs I start. The herb is lying to me--making me believe I am in this special creative world reserved for soul warriors--but I am really watching t.v. and putting my guitar down after 10 mins.
Anyway-last night we took all the stuff we had and threw it away. We flushed 3 bags of weed down the toilet, put all bowls,vaporizer, clips, and yes ashtray skrids too. I have literally went back into the trash before to get ashtray pot ashed-skrids just to get high. This is after coffee and other junk was in there too. Do you know how that f***ing makes you feel. I felt justified because pot is the price of gold and even if I do this it must mean I'm getting all my monies worth. Thats when you know the pot is lying to you-or I am lying to myself about the pot. We decided to get a big poster board paper and paint a big '1' on it to bring in day one of our new life. We know the next few weeks will suck but man I am so sick of being paranoid,angry, worried, high anxiety, and my head always feels like it weighs 30 pounds-----I can't wait until my head feels light again---well--sorry this is so long-but we love reading everyones posts, we related to everyone so much its hard not realize you have a problem when so many of you guys are feeling the exact same way. I thought I was going crazy and this is all in my head. We are from small town America and smoking weed was just something it seemed everyone did. We want to feel good about ourselves again and not spend another weekend locked up in our bedroom bitching about the neighbors and any noise we hear outside our little herb sanctuary. I have been unemployed for the last 2 months and I have all this time------------herb seemed to make the day go by easier---but now we know we are just paranoid, angry, and unhappy--we'll be back--Brand New Day and Sunshine.