by ActualityOfBeing » Thu Apr 29, 2021 5:27 pm
This thread unfortunately could be said to be indeed, slowly crashing.
Yet the universe is always displaying the insight desired, all that is called for is letting go of the concepts & beliefs and shifting to what is actual of direct experience.
In large part, you’ve ‘met Sejan where he’s at’ and this could be very clarifying & helpful for him to see, from a third person view, if you will.
In the same manor that Sejan’s belief’s in regard to death & identity, which are the discord felt, are projected & there appears to be limitation of having & experiencing relationship, creating a family, etc...
...you are repeatedly projecting onto a me, a conceptualization of a me, such as with “you believe that nothing is real”. Your direct experience, is of your belief, that there is a me, which holds beliefs. Again, it can initially be difficult to ‘spot’, but when someone doesn’t believe what you believe, this does not equal that someone believing-not, nor does this equal someone believing something else. It is as it is in your direct experience, a secondary belief about me or a me, which arises as projection, or, as an outward accusatory orientation... rather than inward, illuminating your primary belief.
Similarly, the term “so called” points to the common labeling, or ‘calling’ of separate things, of which there is no actuality whatsoever of, separate things. Separate things is precisely as it appears in your direct experience, a thought.
I feel where you are primarily stuck so to speak, is in a certain arrogance of believing you can think perception. Inspection of direct experience will reveal this is not true, but again, the intention, or, orientation must shift from making this about me, or a me, and ‘spotting’ your own discord, so to speak. Perhaps most simply said, inspection of what is true, or, truth, rather than projection of beliefs and an ignore-ance of what is actual.
Upon inspection, it would be clearly realized that ‘person’, is a thought. While this thought might be a belief for you, no one else is experiencing your belief. Your beliefs are private, in this sense. Wether you inspect via spirituality, science, self inquiry, or even questioning the validity of each thought, you arrive at that you were previously projecting separate where there in truth, never was.
Sejan is doing this in similar fashion, projecting the belief of death, and the separations, separate selves, and of loss... this primary belief implies...onto his life, believing limitations therein, limiting his vision, passion, choices, and what’s breadth and scope of possible for him.
We’re Sejan to inspect direct experience, and begin to align thought with feeling, Sejan would sound experience that in alignment with truth, rather than discord, indeed Sejan will say to the mountains, ‘move mountains’, and indeed, mountains will move.
“Take a knife & cut off your fingers, then have fun telling yourself it is only your perception that your fingers are no longer attached to your body...see how that works out for you.”
Just as the ‘you’ of thoughts, or, the so called you, is a thought... there is not a you, which has, intelligence. However, in the arrogance of believing this is true nonetheless, direct experience is going un-inspected. Though it seems there would be a loss where these beliefs inspected, what is found in actuality is that loss, was a belief.
Intelligence would no sooner ‘cut it’s own fingers off’, than it would instigate a debate with a contributor, when help and clarity is respectfully sought by the original poster. Perhaps the difference, is that intelligence is not claiming “it’s intelligence”, and thus believing “it is separate”, and thus “will one day die”. Going deeper into abstraction with such finger cutting examples is not toward, so to speak, intelligence, nor is it useful or helpful to Sejan.
Sejan’s “cutting off the fingers”, Sejan’s pain... is in actuality suffering, and again, is the discord with truth... is the reoccurring belief. Because the belief is so intimately interwoven into the believed identity, every time this belief arises, and is perpetually believed, the discord is recreated again & again. To inspect actuality, direct experience, is to see through this belief loop, which is to say, to inspect “who” Sejan really is.
When one is not ready to inspect, and not ready to express and release, and realize what is actual, one attempts to pigeonhole others as “extremist”, and or “dogmatic”.
It is plain to see that no extremism nor dogma is being suggested here. To believe “I am a separate self” is already the extreme discord with what is true and actual. For you so join Sejan in this is what dogma is. The opposite route, that of one inspecting one’s own direct experience, is the relief, and the liberation of the suffering, which then is the igniting, or, a natural uncovering of intrinsic interest, curiosity, enthusiasm, inevitably being passion, high energy, and a strong sense of purpose and unity, or, wholeness within.
One must however, in both of your points of view, or if you will, lives, short away from thought, from ontology, accusations, character attacks, projection of beliefs, etc... and to the inspection of what is actual for one’s self, if you will.
It is really just the beliefs, that are crashing.