I am suicidal. I'm 40 years old, I weigh 400 pounds, I have few friends and no girlfriend, I have an innie penis, I'm addicted to porn, I struggle mentally with sex, I've been described by my brother as "the antithesis of the concept" of a man, and I was born with something called Craniosynostosis, which means my head is misshapen and I have a lazy eye. I've been fat my entire adult life; not just "overweight", but morbidly obese for all but a few years. Even when I lost weight I barely had more success with women, and now climbing that mountain of weight loss again feels impossible. What I want to do is end my life. I feel that I've wasted what opportunity I had for a decent life and now there's no point in continuing.
I'm already on three different antidepressants / mood stabilizers and have tried many combinations. I think the issue is not chemical imbalance but circumstances. Add up all of the above and the result is utter hopelessness. I've tried to commit suicide three times, one of which I interrupted myself. One of them, the first time, I very nearly succeeded, and to this day I wish I had. The only thing that really stops me now is knowing what effect it would have on my family, who love me very much. If they weren't around, I'd be dead now.
I've been going to therapy for most of the last decade. As far as I can tell, it hasn't achieved jack sh** and I've lost faith in the entire profession. Quite honestly, I don't know what to do anymore. I think I may have exhausted all the possibilities.
I don't expect anyone to have magical answers to all my problems, but maybe you can help me with whether I'm doing the right thing by staying alive for my family's sake. I already know the answer: that no, it isn't, I have to find my own reason to live. But that's just it: with no real prospects of having a family, I simply can't come up with a reason. I don't know if I'm looking for one or just grasping at straws, but that's where I stand.
Thanks in advance to anyone who read this far.