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If you want marriage I can tell you how. It is actually very easy, but it does require one major change, one major shift in perspective. I know it works, because I have a friend very similar to you and he made the change. He has been dating the same woman for several years now. He is still a misera...

And for that reason you want to create more people who will also suffer. Misery loves company! That's just a failure of imagination. I think that's a little unfair. My point is that I wouldn't be miserable if I had kids to take care of. Kids would be a reason to accept my suffering and consider it ...

But, disengagement was not enough. Women that disengaged, accepting that they could not have children suffered emotionally for much longer than women that disengaged and then reengaged with a new goal of equivalent or greater value. Things such as adoption or participating in a non-profit that help...

Seriously, what's the big deal about making people who'll share your genes? I firmly believe reproduction is the main goal of human existence, for starters. But really, what it boils down to is that I can't imagine anything else that would be fulfilling enough to make the suffering worthwhile. If I...

Your story would be a good read, particularly for other people who Fate has dealt a bad hand. It would be far less interesting than you seem to think. I don't do anything that people would want to read about. Thanks for acknowledging that I did get dealt a bad hand, though - at least you didn't try...

What ways can you create meaning in your life? In other words, I'm supposed to give up on having a family and search for other kinds of fulfillment. To be honest, I don't know. I'm not passionate about anything anymore; I simply exist, finding ways to pass the time so I don't just wallow in my mise...

I'm a programmer. I have a good job.

I am suicidal. I'm 40 years old, I weigh 400 pounds, I have few friends and no girlfriend, I have an innie penis, I'm addicted to porn, I struggle mentally with sex, I've been described by my brother as "the antithesis of the concept" of a man, and I was born with something called Craniosy...