Hi everyone. I need some help. A couple months ago my girlfriend started to feel morning sickness, headaches and extra sensitivity on her breasts on the middle of her cycle. That same month her period was late for 1 or 2 days. Naturally, when her period didn't come, we panicked.
I'm 26 y/o, she's 22, she takes the pill and we used to use condoms all the time. However before that incident we use to have a little playtime before putting the condom.
During those two days I completely lost my mind, anxiety ruled over me. I was shaking and vomitting. We did a pregnancy test, which came out negative, and eventually she had her period.
Still, that episode has been haunting me ever since. Everytime that time of the month comes I panic and have anxiety attacks. We always use a condom since the first minute things get intimate, after that. However, she recently changed her pill and skipped 1 month during summer (by not taking the placebo pills) in order to be able to go on vacations more comfortably. Those two things are now giving me anxiety, since her period is, again, somewhat late.
Rationally, since we use pill + condoms, it would somewhat unlikely that she's pregnant. But I can't shake the "What if" loop from my head. It's running my sleep and I worry that it might ruin a relationship with a girl that I truly love. I've talked to her and she's fully aware of my concerns.
Is there something I can do to ease my mind, or this is it?