Misogyny at the root of anger towards wives

**Posts:** 12131 · by **Richard@DecisionSkills** » Thu Dec 31, 2015 8:45 pm

Josh Smith wrote: Is it that meaning that you are admitting to?

No Josh. That is not the meaning I am using.

Happy New Year.

**Posts:** 1152 · by **Leo Volont** » Fri Jan 01, 2016 12:46 pm

Josh Smith wrote:Leo,

You wrote:
If he IS Sociopathic and Predatory, well, .... he is not Asking for Help.... He is here to Victimize us. To bother us and to cream in his pants when he sees that he has us 'going'. Every time he pushes one of our buttons I think he gives a little squirt and couldn't be happier.

and
He is like a Sexual Predator who goes to Bars and has Gotten Away with virtually raping scores of girls

As you may well imagine, I find these and other comments of yours completely unacceptable.

Of course Any Anger Predator would, wouldn't he... or she?

You are a Boy, right? Maybe "Josh" means you are just 'joshing' us. yes, it all makes sense now... You Are a Girl!

**Posts:** 69 · by **Josh Smith** » Fri Jan 01, 2016 8:17 pm

Hi Richard,

Happy New Year to you, too.
So what is the meaning of passive-aggressive that you are admitting to?

**Posts:** 69 · by **Josh Smith** » Fri Jan 01, 2016 8:30 pm

Leo,

I believe most people would find your insults such as:

He is here to Victimize us. To bother us and to cream in his pants when he sees that he has us 'going'. Every time he pushes one of our buttons I think he gives a little squirt and couldn't be happier.

and

He is like a Sexual Predator who goes to Bars and has Gotten Away with virtually raping scores of girls

and

You are a Boy, right? Maybe "Josh" means you are just 'joshing' us. yes, it all makes sense now... You Are a Girl!

unacceptable, don't you? Why are you so aggressive, Leo?

**Posts:** 1152 · by **Leo Volont** » Sat Jan 02, 2016 4:59 am

Why am I aggressive?

Well, it should be obvious. I wish to make you uncomfortable enough to leave. I wish you to feel most unwelcome.

You think you might have gotten the Hint when all of us Helpers started to do a Post Mortem on your Case.... treating you like a Hopeless Patient that we lost on the Operating Table.

But, look, you pop up and Pretend that you aren't dead... or as good as dead. as far as I believe the other Helpers consider your case.

If there is no way any of us can Help, why are you still Here except for the Gratification you receive in being an eternal nuisance,,,, as I said before...You Must Be Predatory. So far the Studies have shown that the Only Thing that Works against Predatory Anger is External Institutional Inhibitions. That is, Predatory Angry People draw the line at Getting Arrested or Fired from their Jobs... serious consequential stuff like that. Being Aggressive is just about the only thing we can manage.

and I bet you thought I couldn't explain...

**Posts:** 69 · by **Josh Smith** » Sun Jan 03, 2016 7:46 pm

Leo,

You cast yourself as a helper but the way you have conducted yourself suggests it's you who need the help. At some point you advocated modifying anger and seeing the positive in the other person's point of view but, to me, you let out your aggression in a raw way that I find hurtful. To be frank, I find it very strange that you think of yourself as a helper on an anger management forum when you seem not to manage your anger at all.

**Posts:** 653 · by **Introspectah** » Sat Jan 09, 2016 7:33 pm

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Josh, didn't you find the vid i shared a rough 2 weeks ago helpful?

**Posts:** 69 · by **Josh Smith** » Sun Jan 10, 2016 8:29 pm

Hi Introspectah,

Sorry, the video escaped me - what did you recommend?

Regards

**Posts:** 653 · by **Introspectah** » Mon Jan 11, 2016 11:44 am

Josh Smith wrote:Hi Introspectah,

Sorry, the video escaped me - what did you recommend?

Regards

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pk6SoSnIzDM

**Posts:** 69 · by **Josh Smith** » Mon Jan 11, 2016 9:23 pm

Hi Introspectah,

Thanks for the link. Apologies for the strangeness of what I'm about to say but, for reasons I can't reveal, I want to stay clear of Teal Swan. Sorry again for sounding odd and mysterious.

**Posts:** 69 · by **Josh Smith** » Tue Jan 12, 2016 9:29 pm

Hi Introspectah,

On reflection, this is all anonymous so I shouldn't be so coy. The fact is Teal Swan is a charlatan. She claimed to be subject to awful abuse for years on end when she was actually pursuing a career as a model. She encourages people to commit suicide and makes glib remarks about people who followed her advice and killed themselves. You can find evidence for these and other claims on the web.
Not on the web is this: a close friend of mine is a psychotherapist. He recently had two clients - completely independent of each other - who both had disturbing quasi-psychotic experiences after watching Teal Swan videos.
All in all, I want to keep a big distance between Ms Swan and me.

**Posts:** 653 · by **Introspectah** » Wed Jan 13, 2016 2:32 pm

Josh Smith wrote:Hi Introspectah,

On reflection, this is all anonymous so I shouldn't be so coy. The fact is Teal Swan is a charlatan. She claimed to be subject to awful abuse for years on end when she was actually pursuing a career as a model. She encourages people to commit suicide and makes glib remarks about people who followed her advice and killed themselves. You can find evidence for these and other claims on the web.
Not on the web is this: a close friend of mine is a psychotherapist. He recently had two clients - completely independent of each other - who both had disturbing quasi-psychotic experiences after watching Teal Swan videos.
All in all, I want to keep a big distance between Ms Swan and me.

In spite of your prejudice, did you listen to what she has to say?
I presume not.

So your judgement's already biased before you've given her a chance.

You can find evidence for these and other claims on the web.

Point me to it.

a close friend of mine is a psychotherapist. He recently had two clients - completely independent of each other - who both had disturbing quasi-psychotic experiences after watching Teal Swan videos.

From which you infer Teal has deliberately induced experiences within them that didn't originate within the hosts to begin with?

Great are the odds to be overcome by a sudden irruption of a formerly latent psychosis upon exposure to a chilling and debilitating truth.

Teal guides people back into the core of themselves, which unfortunately proves to be fatal in some cases.
But i'd like to hear out the efficacy of your reasoning behind your condemnation of her character, and how well-defined and -balanced it is.

**Posts:** 69 · by **Josh Smith** » Wed Jan 13, 2016 8:36 pm

Hi Introspectah,

This is all way off the thread but, if you want the evidence, google "Teal Swan fraud".

**Posts:** 653 · by **Introspectah** » Thu Jan 14, 2016 4:45 pm

Josh Smith wrote:Hi Introspectah,

This is all way off the thread but, if you want the evidence, google "Teal Swan fraud".

I'm not looking for evidence in general, i want to be guided towards the evidence which convinced you of her alleged fraudulence.
But this particular route contains the presupposition which entails that you've modeled your judgement after concrete evidence.

I suppose you'll also make convenient use of said irrelevance to thread in order to neglect responding to this invitation?

But i'd like to hear out the efficacy of your reasoning behind your condemnation of her character, and how well-defined and -balanced it is.

**Posts:** 69 · by **Josh Smith** » Thu Jan 14, 2016 8:26 pm

Hi Introspectah,

I feel no need to justify my judgement about Teal Swan to you.

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