Ok thank you to you both for all your input. I appreciate it. You've given me a lot to think about. I may get to one of those books one day when my brain is more focused. I will try my best to see the bright side of situations.
Thanks a lot!
Jesse
BO-DACIOUS wrote:Ok thank you to you both for all your input. I appreciate it. You've given me a lot to think about. I may get to one of those books one day when my brain is more focused. I will try my best to see the bright side of situations.
Thanks a lot!
Jesse
lovelife wrote:BO-DACIOUS wrote:Please, someone help me. Anger is ruining my life.
Hey guys, this is kyle here.
Not so long ago I was a very angry individual and I didnt know how to control it.
Controlling your anger can be really frustrating. It was almost impossible for us to learn how to do without a proper tutorial from the pros.
I've watch hundreds of tutorials online but nothing beats this simple clear to the cut video here-https://clk.ink/oBW8x
click the link above, and you'll land on a 5 sec landing page, just click skip on the top right corner to continue, and you land on YOU TUBE tutorial video where it shows you step by step on how to control your anger even if your a beginner.
i hope that someone would of shown me this when i was first learning how to control my anger that would save me hours an hours of banging my head off the wall trying out different technics.
Again you can watch the tutorial here-https://clk.ink/oBW8x
I'm almost sure this tutorial will blow your mind.
This guy makes controlling your anger look ridiculously easy! no joke.
hope this helps
Kyle
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BO-DACIOUS wrote:Kyle, can you tell me what to search on YouTube? I dont like clicking random links I find on line. I appreciate it though!
quietvoice wrote:BO-DACIOUS wrote:Kyle, can you tell me what to search on YouTube? I dont like clicking random links I find on line. I appreciate it though!
He was banned and his posts were deleted because he was spamming with his links.
He did say that it was to a "Sadhguru" video, though.
BO-DACIOUS wrote:Yeah that was suspicious to me too. I dont click things like that. What do these gurus do? Is it anger management?
I've been doing much better with anger over the past few weeks. I also attended my first anger management class the other day. I hope that works out well too. Sorry I havent got back to you I'm just really busy and tired.
Thanks again for your help man,
Jesse
BO-DACIOUS wrote:Okay I had a couple classes. I told her about the cortisol trick and she hadn't heard about it. My homework was to draw my anger and fill out this test. It said I was a bit of a doormat but I know I'm not that. I did learn that I may have not learned how to deal with my anger from a young age...still dont know why. They are talking about the positive sides of anger like how babies use it to control their caregiver/environment. Kind of goes against what you're saying...hard to figure out which is true.
DanielShaw wrote:1. Practice deep breathing
2. Count from 1 to 100 or 100 to 1
3. Focus on the present
4. Relax tight muscles
5. Listen to music
6. Be assertive
7. Regular timeout
8. Relaxation techniques: Yoga
9. Professional Help
10. Nurture your sense of humor:
BO-DACIOUS wrote:Ok thanks to both of you. I was always taught that assertiveness is an alternative to aggression. Weird. Well I'm reading a book on the stock market one or two pages a day so it's going ok. Sorry for the late reply I've been super busy and it's hard to read big posts all at once.
Thanks again for all your input
Jesse