by Noty157 » Thu Dec 12, 2019 3:57 am
I have fantasies about myself killing women. Thing is, I don't really think I am a misogynist, because my overall feeling towards women is more boredom than it is anger. I don't think a misogynist would want to kill a woman if he or she didn't find it fun somehow. Although I have made a few female friends in my life, it hasn't stopped me disliking other women.
One of my least favourite films is the rape revenge film I Spit On Your Grave, which involves a woman getting revenge on 5 men who raped her. I was able to message the main actress online by at first telling her what my favourite part of the film I probably did like to then telling her I wanted to kill her in a twisted sexual gory way. I knew I didn't like what the men did to her, but I also didn't like what she did to them. Conversely, another sexually gory film I came across was called A Serbian Film, about a male pornstar who gets hired to get into much more twisted sexual antics in the porn industry. I knew I liked A Serbian Film far more than I Spit On Your Grave, because of the contrast in terms of storylines and what happens to certain characters which ultimately makes me realise one thing: I only find it palatable for men to destroy women one way or another...preferably on film.
I can never really take this problem out on any man or woman close to me, because I know I have a family who do love me and support me as best as they can even when I'm not convinced they support me well enough. At least I know how to make a distinction between film and real life, because I know I can find myself in a moment which involes not wanting to make that distinction. That's why I yearn to be a really successful actor and film producer which does involve gory scenes of men killing women, but so long it is combined with other film dynamics such as good storylines, plot twists, theme and character developments and so on.
By the way Rafique, sorry to hear about your grandmother nagging you all the time. One of my grandmothers sadly died when I was only 3, but at least my other grandmother is still alive and well while fighting cancer. I hope she remains more than well enough to do some cooking this Boxing Day.