No0ne wrote: I still think u shouldn't judge people, it's not my or your place to judge someone, U can have an opinion on something, but it'
s not same as judging
I agree that having an opinion is different than judging. That is why the words mean different things.
Now for me...I can judge all I wish. Why? Who gives me the authority to judge?
I DO.If a man rapes an infant I don’t only have an opinion. I also have a judgment. It’s wrong. I don’t give a rats f$&@# what your opinion on the subject is. I don’t care if you do or do not have a judgment on the matter. Whatever you feel, however you wish to think that is fine with me. If you don’t want to judge a child rapist because you don’t have the conviction to declare yourself judge that is perfectly fine.
But I do. I don’t need some higher authority to judge for me. Screw that. I can judge and I damn well will do so.
Do you not have that confidence? Why or why not?
I get that some people, I’m assuming including you, believe that judgment is reserved for something beyond the scope of humanity. If that’s what you wish to believe, fine with me.
In my opinion you can judge me all you want. Like me, don’t like me. Have a negative opinion or a positive opinion. Judge me or not, I don’t care. You are welcome to it.
And guess what? I’m welcome to accept or reject your judgment, same as I’m welcome to accept or reject your opinion.
You have no authority over me same as I have no authority over you. So if you don’t like my judgment...well, tough s***t, that’s life buddy. You don’t have to accept it, but I’ll be damned if your going to tell me what I’m allowed to judge or not.
My advice...don’t put so much value in the judgments others make, including mine. Stay away from letting yourself believe that if someone passes judgment that they have some authority. Don’t necessarily dismiss what they say, because they might have a point. But if your getting all twisted and hung up over an opinion versus a judgment, then you are the one with the problem.
Seriously. There are people literally being killed because they happened to belong to a certain religion or culture and you have the luxury of being on the Internet to whine about the difference between a judgment and an opinion. Seriously?
Look, I get that same as you I’m in a luxurious position. I just think the difference is that I appreciate the luxury while your in here whining about whether a person should judge or only have an opinion. Really? You don’t have any other issues in your life to focus on?