From time to time people ask why I do not marry, or at least why dont I get a girl when I am about 30.
You know me from my posts a bit. So you can tell me - if guy like should marry, or first I should fix my problems and get better girl?
Even if I fix my problems, I might not find a girl which I want to marry. So thats the question. Is being single so bad? From what they talk, its like you are totally worse, but you marry you magically will become better.
Maybe you will maybe you will not get better version of yourself after marriage.
But should it not be because I want to marry, not because others are pushing me? Yesterday one old guy who was repairing my flat was telling I should should marry. He said he has 2 brohers about 60 years old still searching for girl to marry. And he said they are stupid. As I understood he meant you become stupid over time if you do not marry. Is this for real or does he not know what he is talking about?
I for sure know people who get stupid during the marriage because of disrespect for example. Some even kill themselves while being in marriage. So that shows that it can be so difficult in marriage.
When I was kid, I did not notice that many problems of couples, it looked everything nice - hugs, kisses, sex. Now it looks that those things are just small part of couple relationship.
I feel no stress when at my home nobody is yelling at me, nobody is cheating on me, nobody is spending my hard earned money, nobody is telling that playing computer games is bad etc.
I of course do not want to get more stupid when I got older. Even better would be that I get more smart and succesful and woman want me but they cannot get me
So in short:
- should I marry if I do not feel like, just because everyone needs marriage?
- will I become more stupid because of not living together with woman?