Questions for all.
I hope you can put in an subliminal perspective.
What is the goal of a conversation?
What does the subject want when he/she talks to someone ?
Candid wrote:Or to seek pleasure and validation, the other side of the coin.
jargan wrote:To take a more systemic view, another purpose is to establish/deepen a shared context and thus a relationship.
Richard@DecisionSkills wrote:To remove discomfort. That is the basis of all human action, including conversation.
https://mises.org/sites/default/files/H ... tion_3.pdf
jargan wrote:To take a more systemic view, another purpose is to establish/deepen a shared context and thus a relationship.
Hypnoboy wrote:Richard@DecisionSkills wrote:To remove discomfort. That is the basis of all human action, including conversation.
https://mises.org/sites/default/files/H ... tion_3.pdf
I was thinking Richard that this is at least a real hedonistic point of view.
jargan wrote:I wouldn't say all action is driven by discomfort. If you look at a "hierarchy of needs" kind of construct, removing discomfort would be one big driver, and as more and more discomfort gets eliminated, striving for new things (which is not necessarily based on discomfort) becomes more of a factor.
All of this is semantics to some degree, but your perspective on these things can have quite a bit of influence on how effectively you can motivate yourself and to what extent you're actually going to consider doing certain things.
How so? I agree, but probably not for the same reasons. Are you referring to NLP? Positive psychology, etc?
jargan wrote:I don't know, to me comfort is not necessarily just the total absence of discomfort. The assumption here is that once all negatives have been removed, change is no longer possible. The way I see it, the absence of negatives still allows for adding more positives. I admit that this is a smallish distinction but I think it's important.
I've seen the idea of push vs. pull motivation somewhere, I can't recall the source, but basically the argument is that avoiding pain and seeking pleasure are two distinct types of motivation, and usually the former will have precedence over the latter.
I'm not sure there's an actual neurological difference between the two, though I suspect that there is (with no proper evidence, shame on me).
What difference do you think it makes to your actions?
If we accept Mises theory that all action is the removal of discomfort, or if we accept your theory, that discomfort is negative, and once all negatives (discomforts) have been removed, then adding positives or comfort is possible, how does that influence your decisions, what is the actual application?