Hello there almarasgada
Havee you tried any general support groups for people whose family members/partners have been or are imprisoned? I would have thought that they deal with questions like that too.
I searched and came across:
http://www.e-ccip.org/ - The Center for Children of Incarcerated Parents (CCIP)
http://www.geocities.com/heartland/flats/5661/ - Families Outside The Wall (This is a Yahoo members group, not an organisation)
http://www.fcnetwork.org/ - Family & Corrections Network
http://www.friendsoutside.org/ - Friends Outside
I found all these links on this site:
http://groups.msn.com/True-emotions-netPrisonSupportGroup/othersupportgroups.msnw There are more links, some of them did not work when I looked but they might just have been temporarily unavailable.
Some of those are more for people who are in prison and their families and about more 'practical' issues but they may have links that are useful to you.
I hope those help.
Best wishes