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Hi Free9

That is a tough situation.

May I ask - what is it that you are studying at the moment, and what is that you would like to study?

Are they two completely different subjects?

Hi bob dylan You're right - he is a bully. But. You are a grown-up, clever, nice sounding young guy and you can deal with this. It sounds like he is not very happy with his life. He locks himself up in his room, he doesn't look after the place where he lives. He dislikes the things you do, and ridic...

jb_2008

That's brilliant. How did you do it? What made you decide to quit? How did you get through the 'bad days'?

Do please tell us your story

Luellasweets, I am sorry about the earlier comments by some posters, they obviously had not registered the facts you stated in your post. A lot of what we get turned on by is habitual, we 'get used to' getting turned on by it. This can be changed. Sometimes what turns us on is triggered by a bad exp...

No need to apologise for being a guy and not liking the idea. If a girl had posted the same message I think she would get a lot of empathic responses. Sometimes it seems that as a guy you are supposed to be into anything that is sexual. Don't apologise for it. It's perfectly normal to want to keep y...

Desert Foxx, you are terrible!! Archimedes, does she like reading? A book is always a good gift. Or a nice box of chocolates or something Christmassy like Turkish Delights. Or you could just get her a Christmas flower just before you are going to see her - a poinsettia or a Christmas arrangement, ev...

For someone who finds it difficult to orgasm with a partner, masturbation may be a preferable option in terms of getting a 'release'. In that scenario, the person's own, and his or her partner's, expectations may add to the anxiety, and thus make reaching a climax even more difficult! No doubt mastu...

Hi RMoore1 Firstly, on your decision to quit - well done, that's great and I hope you are doing well and keeping strong. The fact that you have quit will bring up some painful emotions, it's a bit like you're looking around to see where you left your life before weed blurred it and made it disappear...

Hi carlinfan Yes - I agree, there would be a deeper issue or reason. For me the reason is, I used to try to do anything I could to get my parents' attention, and it was never really there. And now I go for the guys who are either not in the position to give me attention, or just not willing to. How ...

guys that can just detach How I wish I could do that! Right now as I am trying to recover from a short, one-sided (me being the clingy one), disastrous relationship! Trying very hard to remind myself how I should not contact them, and how, if I do, I will only degrade myself even further....But it ...

Evolution by Mark Ridley changed my life. It's not a self-improvement book by any means. Another book that really rocked my little world was Microcosmos by Lynn Margulis and Dorion Sagan. Both of these books taught me a lot about the relation between species and between animals and bacteria. Self-im...

I will stop being a feminist when men and women have equal pay and when I can go to my local pub for a pint without getting strange looks from the old farts sitting in the corner. Feminism must be one of the most misunderstood concepts in work and social life, it is still labelled as a movement from...

If i stay it's for my own reason, and not explicitely FOR her If you stay because you like her, that IS your own reason. It sounds like your life is such that it is easy for you to leave/move from one place to another - so you can always do this later if you want. The fact that you can share someth...

Hi happyguy1980 You had the two most important women in your life leave when you were pretty young. You also saw a lot of broken relationships around you. The relationships we experience and observe as children do mould our expecations from other people later on in life. I experienced two divorces w...

Hi WeirdPosition That must be an awful thing to be dealing with, and I can understand why you're upset about it! It's important to remember one thing: If you are feeling uncomfortable about it, then it should not happen. It does not matter why she might be doing it. You don't like her doing it, full...