Eureka! Today my psychiatrist acknowledged that "symptoms could occur when any physical effect the medication may have had is resolving itself ... and sometimes there could be a rebound effect of the previous condition".
This is huge! Once you cut through the cautious language, he's acknowledging side effects and physical withdrawal symptoms, and episodes of anxiety and depression as part of the withdrawal process - NOT the underlying condition or a relapse. Fantastic!
Ruth, Tasha, hope you're reading this. I wanted to post this separately so that as many people as poss might read it and know that even a cautious psychiatrist is now prepared to acknowledge what we've come to know through experience and the informed opinions of others, often not medical.
So there is even more hope - and my gut feel is that the (medical) jury's not so much still out on ssris, but hasn't yet even left the room. It will be very interesting to see how these drugs are regarded in a couple of years' time.
Keep the faith!
Juno