Firstly to put in to context. I was always immature fun silly guy. Though i do have high pride and bordering on arrogance. I was always popular also and not one to be mocked.
Anyway I sadly got a long term illness and as a result lost a lot of weight and became very vulnerable, I looked very unattractive, lost a lot of weight (again opposite of my usual self) and i had no confidence due to all above.
During this time 2 people, 1 a friend from my youth and my cousin decided to take advantage of me.
The friend I feel acted out of jealousy, I always had popularity, decent money and looks and he did not, once i got ill he started to spread rumours about me and when around people he would always make comments to put me down and mock me in front of them, even when just alone he would keep saying nasty things. He even managed to borrow a lot of money off me which took almost 3+ years for me to chase back from him during which time he threatened things such as blowing up my car etc when i asked for the money. Yes this person is a moron and was not a good friend but he wasnt like this when i was healthy and confident, just shows you....
Now as for my cousin, hes bad news, a lot younger than me so i never knew him much, I heard hes in court and getting in trouble a lot when 16-18, but by now i am ill and mid 20s and he moves near me so i hang with him but im still ill and not myself, but he does not know me as he did not know me when i was younger.
Again i Knew to avoid him when young but as i had few friends and he moved close by i start to hang with him and his bad freinds. During this time he kept trying to steal money from me to buy drugs, or phone me in middle of night to pick him up from places etc...He did not know im normally good looking guy so kept making disrespecting comments telling me to look good and feel good and get myself a littlle gf to play computer games with, or even try to tell me about sex and girls and that im insecure and need emotional support etc despite me being a lot older than him. It was so belittling and none of it true,. Off course when i was young and good looking (and no brag really hung haha)attracting girls werent a problem but really i never cared for it but i was always attractive so these comments only happening due to my illness nonetheless i was more than insulted. I was in no way to comment or fight back at time as i was still ill.
I also got a job despite looking a mess delivering pizzas and other staff would comment and mock me or call me virgin etc..obviously as i looked real ugly at this time.
Anyway fast forward to now and again i am back to full health and i think back to these 3 incidents on a daily basis.
I get so mad, Ive even smashed my tv by accident as i had rage attack with baseball bat in my room thinking about how i want to kill all these people.
Ive even taken action, I physically went to my cousins house and beat him up. I ended up having to completely cut all contact with initial freind, by removing him and all his freinds from facebook and such things. And I told him to fuk off etc IRL.
I went back to the pizza shop looking good and the staff were like WTF? What u done, I just said i had a shave and beenn going to gym lol, they like damn maybe ill need have shave also haha.
So despite me kinda having 'revenge' for all these 3 people/things. My mind still continually plays back all these things on a daily basis.
I thought doing something about it would help but as you see it hasnt. Ive been planning to beat my cousin up again haha but WHY?
Whats the psychology in the human brain to keep replaying these thoughts? Recently i hooked up with hot girl and stuff, so life is back to normal but yet rather than focus on the good i replay annoying thoughts and constant anger.
I used to walk about like singing silly songs in my head, talking my dog a walk, such a happy spirit, lighthearted and making jokes with everyone, now its like im always angry and wanting to fight etc....
I was ill and unwell and everyone in the world just used or abused me. IT shows what humanity is really like. It was a good social experiment as well i guess and shows you what life must be like for those unfortunatley not so good looking sadly. When I was young and attractive I had respect. Then when i got illl and weak you see what happened.