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Postby Leo Volont » Thu Feb 04, 2016 12:45 pm

JuliusFawcett wrote:Great, you have your pride, I trust it keeps you happy :)


Julius!

Do you ever Read Anything? Do You Ever THINK about Anything?

My Entire Point is that MORAL CONSIDERATIONS by far take Precedence over being 'merely and shallowly' HAPPY. The HAPPY PERSON is the guy that got the Best Table in the Dining Room of the Titanic, but only after everyone else ran to find a place on a Life Boat.

Honestly, Julius, I will have to stop writing to you unless you make some effort to listen to what I am saying.

yes, that sounds Patronizing. But, honestly, it is. I definitely have more Respect for myself than I have for you. Frankly you are amoral. what Crime will you not commit in order to maintain your Happiness? Well, to me, you would be absolutely Contemptible if I believed that you were smart enough to really comprehend the implications of your totally hedonistic and self-centered Philosophy of Life. But I give you the benefit of the doubt of being just some New Age Drudge out there trying to scrape by making a Living. But PLEASE realize Who You Are and realize Who I Am... and what you Stand For and what I Stand For.

Think about it... Does God want us to be GOOD, or does God what us to be HAPPY?
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Postby JuliusFawcett » Thu Feb 04, 2016 6:26 pm

Thought is merely a tool to keep me feeling happy. All I would ever like is to feel good, any thoughts that do not support feeling good are irrelevant to me.

I have unconditional respect for both you and I. We deserve respect just because we are alive.

I abide by the law, I am gentle, caring and loving to everyone, because that's what keeps me feeling good. God allows us to be whatever we would like to be, and only those with a clean conscience stay happy. God rewards good people with happiness.
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Postby Leo Volont » Fri Feb 05, 2016 1:24 pm

JuliusFawcett wrote:Thought is merely a tool to keep me feeling happy. All I would ever like is to feel good, any thoughts that do not support feeling good are irrelevant to me.

I have unconditional respect for both you and I. We deserve respect just because we are alive.

I abide by the law, I am gentle, caring and loving to everyone, because that's what keeps me feeling good. God allows us to be whatever we would like to be, and only those with a clean conscience stay happy. God rewards good people with happiness.


Julius,

I love you and everything, and know you are good at heart, but, you DEFINE yourself as Shallow

We could never be friends. Not really. You would never stick with any body though Hard Times because THE ONLY THING YOU CARE ABOUT is your own pitiful happiness.

And, really, how happy could you be... I can't be the only person in the World to see your Essential Selfishness.

You must be Happy in some kind of a Socially Isolated Solitude... and I am not really sure how that could ever work.
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Postby JuliusFawcett » Fri Feb 05, 2016 5:14 pm

On the contrary, I have friends that many others would find amazingly challenging to stick with, because my happiness is entirely internally maintained, I do not need the other person to be anything or do anything for me to be perfectly happy being around them.
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Postby Leo Volont » Sat Feb 06, 2016 12:45 pm

JuliusFawcett wrote:On the contrary, I have friends that many others would find amazingly challenging to stick with, because my happiness is entirely internally maintained, I do not need the other person to be anything or do anything for me to be perfectly happy being around them.


Oh My God, but Some Completely Shallow Guy was able to find some Completely Shallow Friends.

Really, you find that all that amazing?

Now if you could claim me as a friend, maybe you would have some bragging rights. But, sorry to disappoint you, but I find you shallow. It is a Blessing that you have Shallow Friends where the Subject of the Inherent Emptiness of your Lives never comes up. Of course it does with all the People you Meet and then Go Away... that is why they go away. Treasure the Friends you have... in the World of Competent Adults, extremely shallow people of your flock are getting harder and harder to find.
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Postby JuliusFawcett » Sat Feb 06, 2016 12:52 pm

I don't feel the need to compete regarding the emotional depth of my friends.

When we have had enough of suffering we choose only happiness.

You are still experimenting with suffering, I understand that, I used to also, until it nearly killed me, then I chose happiness, because I chose to live. It seems that you have not yet fully chosen to live, and I accept that.
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Postby Leo Volont » Sun Feb 07, 2016 12:59 pm

JuliusFawcett wrote:Good always wins, love dissolves fear


Well, Hi Julius,

Well, anyway, to concede something to your Argument, I'd feel mean-spirited to chase you away, for being so wrong, but since you are obviously so well intentioned, like a naïve child, I feel it my Moral Duity to continue.

First, Good Does Not Always Win. yes, historians usually record that way... because History is Written by the Winners. The losers die in silence with nobody to take up their cause. Just look at the conflict between Rome and Carthage. for the Hundred Years War between Carthage and Rome, the most popular Roman Politicians took up the line that "Carthage Must Die (reminding us somewhat of modern Iranian Declarations) and that if Carthage were ever successfully invaded, well, no effort would be made to rehabilitate the Population... to Win their Hearts and Minds... that Rome would Instigate a Program to "Salt The Earth".. to make their Agricultural Ground infertile. Well, it Worked.

Rome hit upon the one tactic that would destroy Carthage forever.. even if they could offer up insurgent opposition to the Roman Legions, what good would it do if they had no Food?

So, Rome Won and Carthage Lost. Does that Really Mean that Rome was Good and that Carthage was bad? Notice that under Roman Jurisdiction, Higher Education at the University Level seemed to disappear. Roman's had no 'Museum' or University, as the Greek Civilization had had before them. One has to wonder how they were able to engineer such fine Highways ( some still exist today... in better condition than some modern highways), and such splendid Aqueducts... maybe they simply Out Sourced this kind of Engineering Prowess to Greek Slaves, who still had not forgotten everything they Learned while the World was still Civilized.

Anyway, there is plenty of room to argue that Rome defeating Carthage was not exactly an instance of Good conquering
Evil. Carthage had been the Older Society. Rome the invasive upstart, using Violence to get what it wanted. Carthage was clearly only trying to defend itself. It seemed that Rome wanted what it had, and it wanted what Carthage had too, and for that to happen... "Carthage Must Die". Was this Really Good?

If Carthage had successfully defended against Rome and had created a Larger Society, intertwined between Rome and Carthage, to cover the Self Interests of Everybody.... Might Not History have turned out Better.

Indeed, History after the Complete Roman, "Salt the Earth" Victory may be kind of equivalent to the Nazis having won the War and having taken Jurisdiction over the World.

Julius... Is That What You think about when you say "Good Always Wins"?

Well, to put the argument more into your reach, if you are not comfortable with Ancient History, does EVERY INNOCENT VICTUM of a Crime who Struggles and Fights Back but gets Killed easily to the jeers and laughter of his Murderers... well, weill, ARE YOU ACTUALLY SAYING THAT THEY ARE EVIL BECAUSE THEY ARE THE LOSERS, AND THAT THE CRUDE AND BARBARIC INSTIGATORS ARE THE GOOD ONES... only just because they were the ones that won?

If that is what you think,. maybe you should get a Job of the.... I forget his name.... but he is now very famous in America for being a "Winner"... and for being Very Happy.

Just Look, Julius, at the Moral Company you are keeping.

You could be My Friend. But you chose to side with... well, with whoever Wins. YOU SIMPLY HAVE NO PRINCIPLES! Well, except to do whatever is best for you... and screw the rest of the World. Under such conditions you would not be much of a friend, would you?
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Postby JuliusFawcett » Sun Feb 07, 2016 5:30 pm

Good always wins, love dissolves fear because it is more enjoyable to die with a clean conscience than to live with knowing that what was done wasn't right.

Sure Rome can take control of Carthage, and at what cost to their sanity?
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Sun Feb 07, 2016 10:08 pm

JuliusFawcett wrote:You're convinced you are right, well done, where has that choice got you?


And where has that choice gotten you? Depression, a tattered mental state, and preaching a philosophy that is mentally unhealthy.
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Postby Leo Volont » Mon Feb 08, 2016 2:42 am

JuliusFawcett wrote:Good always wins, love dissolves fear because it is more enjoyable to die with a clean conscience than to live with knowing that what was done wasn't right.

Sure Rome can take control of Carthage, and at what cost to their sanity?



Discussion only works if Words refer to distinct and unique concepts.

Now you have taken to using Words but not with their ordinary standard meanings. You are talking in some New Age Fog. You argue that you are not wrong at all in any of your arguments... not if you are permitted to juggle the meaning of your words.

Under such conditions, talking to you is useless, right?

You need to grow up. The best writers and thinkers in the History of the New Age Movement did not feel compelled to talk in paradoxical high flying Gibberish.

Gibberish is the Language that Conniving Fools use to get over on complete idiots. I am frankly insulted that you would think that kind of silliness would work on me.

Or maybe you just don't know when it is in your best interest to just Give Up. Just look at the Posts you have been writing, which more people than just myself may judge you by. Being so famously and profusely shallow may end up costing you Employment Opportunities.
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Postby JuliusFawcett » Tue Feb 16, 2016 9:09 am

Please forgive me
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Postby Leo Volont » Tue Feb 16, 2016 12:56 pm

JuliusFawcett wrote:Please forgive me


Dear Julius,

Well, honestly, there is not concern here for 'forgiving you... we are the closest of friends here, aren't we? Disagreeing on a matter of Anger Management, where even the Anointed Experts still disagree with me (On the Point that "Anger" Can Not Be Both an Emotion And A Behavior, and that the Psychological Community has shied away from the Issue, not because "Anger isn't a Great Word for the Behavior, but because they Dread having to name the Emotion.... "Hatred".

People get Angry because they Hate Things that Happen to them.

But HATE is a 4 letter word.

SO, even the Leaders of the Field disagree with me. that certainly does not make them right, but I certainty, on my own part do not assign any Moral Detriment to them.... they are not being Willfully Stupid or Intransigent, but they are being held back only by Mental Habit and a sense for Aesthetics -- the Idea seems Good to them and so they don't review it. And, being Naturally Lazy, when the problem is pointed out, they resist stirring themselves up to Actually Look At the Thing.

So, NO. if I have Problems with Everybody Else, and don't care, Certainly, I wouldn't care about slight disagreements with you.

Indeed, if you were here on the Island, I would take you out and we would both get drunk as Lords and have a wonderful time together. And we would finally put your Happiness to the test by seeing whether it would be You or I who could make the Pretty Girls smile first....

Such a contest can only be among friends, no? (more to be translated as the Latin or French 'Si")
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Postby JuliusFawcett » Tue Feb 16, 2016 1:26 pm

My smile is pretty contagious, just a head's up :)
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Postby Leo Volont » Tue Feb 16, 2016 1:46 pm

JuliusFawcett wrote:My smile is pretty contagious, just a head's up :)


Well, my Friend, your engaging smile, HERE, with These Beautiful women, well, may get you No Where. Beautiful Women are used to Smiles and all of the Cavalier Attentions, and by the time they are 15 years old, have learned how to shrug them off.

So, In OUR Contest, I would suspect it would be between my Cynical Wit and your 'Everything is All Perfect But We Are All Too Silly to Notice".

I think, even with my Old Age Handicap... if it Is a Handicap... my Ready and Commiserating Sympathy for every one else's Problems, and That I Actually Acknowledge Problems... but with a Smiling Social Cynicism... well, I think I would have them all in my Lap, while you are still smirking good-naturedly.
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Postby JuliusFawcett » Tue Feb 16, 2016 3:14 pm

You are right, I don't acknowledge problems, I see challenges and propose solutions. Smiling, laughing, hugging, kissing and having fun are the solutions that I most often propose.

Notice those easy going, easy smiling, friendly guys pulling the beautiful women in with their easy charm. Yes, that's me :)
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