I have a client who wants more confidence, particularly in the areas of presenting, answering questions at peer group meetings and dealing with staff (when its bad news). My client is also having problems sleeping (particularly getting off to sleep and being able to stay asleep). The client is an extremely logical, capable and intelligent person.
This person is a single parent bringing up 2 children (with the aid of a live in nanny), runs their own business (of which they are No. 1 in the UK and No. 3 in Europe) and works 6 days a week from 7.30am until at least 7.00pm every day. The client last had time off work over 20 years ago. The client has nobody to share the responsibility or delegate to and I believe this is the prime cause of the problem as they are unable to "switch off" and take some "me-time".
My client very definitely keeps a clear divide between home and work, but in some ways this makes the problem worse as they are unable to speak to anyone about their issues as the issues overlap both areas.
I can only see the client in her work surroundings and they are often interrupted by the telephone, so trance work is somewhat difficult (I am hopeful of getting the client away from the phone in subsequent sessions).
I have given the client advice on sleeping, taught 7-11 breathing, taught the 3 Things technique. I have also taught the client about One Point martial art breathing to assist in focussing of attention and calming of nerves, located the feeling and tried to alter it, asked the Miracle Question, ascertained personal values and benefits, and even used some acupressure point work.
My aim (if I can get the client away from having to answer the phone) is to take the client into relaxation and give them a holiday utilising trance time, making 1 minute of trance worth 1 hour of clock time for example. I also plan to future pace the client using the breathing techniques and one point and seeing themselves in several situations they know will be useful to use these in appearing calm and confident.
I have explained about the importance of meeting the basic human needs, the value of sleep, the link between the conscious mind, unconscious mind and physiology and the value of worrying well.
I have given the client handouts, including articles from Uncommon Knowledge on Public Speaking, Worrying Well, the 7 basic human needs as well as a few other items.
Has anyone got any other suggestions I can use with this client as any help would be very gratefully received.