Morning all - happy new year and best wishes to all on the forum for 2022.
Been ages since I posted and the reason is because once again Ive fallen back into that old lifestyle. The last two years have been tough for everyone but the extra time at home and working at home enabled me to smoke constantly, consumption has never been higher and I can easily smoke two to three bags a week. Weirdly enough despite this I’ve had a successful year professionally, got my best ever work appraisal but it’s been one big haze, my short term memory is all over the place and I’ve not been ‘in the room’ when it comes to family stuff etc. chores get overlooked and laziness has been the modus operandi. My health has suffered both physically and mentally.
Have now not smoked since Xmas Eve and picking up the forum again I read a post from wakinglife that really hit home… wakinglife stated that they kept believing they could return to moderate use but EVERY TIME. It ends up in the same result and for me each time I do this (with the same result as wakinglife) it feels like I’ve got worse each time ie consumption even higher. Need to focus that if I do get these thoughts about moderate use that it will inevitably lead to what it does each and every time I do it - constant 24/7 usage.
My mum is a recovering alcoholic and she has a saying that ‘one is to many and 20 isn’t enough’ and that definitely applies to me also.
I’ve got positive thoughts about 2022 and I really need to remember I can’t do moderate use no matter how much I want to it’s just simply not possible and that one toke can lead to a thousand more times and ending back up at rock bottom once again!
Thanks all and once again best wishes for 2022.