Pawsreallysucks wrote:Tokeless, thanks for the response. I do agree that this is not a great train of thought. While smoking I did not mind doing my own thing and spending the day alone. That totally changed these last few months. Unfortunately during my quit seems to be when I’ve lost a majority of my friends(due to most of them being friends I smoked and grabbed food with, then smoked again). Which has triggered maybe some sort of separation anxiety.
I can relate to a few things you say. Happy to smoke alone but also with friends. All of which disappeared when I stopped, which made me realise weed was the glue that stuck us together... little else we knew of each other. In my experience but not personally, I think anxiety is the main issue with 99% on here, but it's hard to override it because it's a complex thing anxiety. It doesn't always look like it or is consciousness. It invades our thoughts and beliefs and shares many features with other issues or conditions... however, it is still anxiety and a state of mind, which is why I suggested you challenge yours because there is no way jealousy can be weed related...other than if someone had great weed and I couldn't get any or someone was off to the dam and I couldn't go...
Focus on the facts... you've quit, the hard part. The rest is fed by negative emotions and looking in to why you feel this way.... simple. YOU QUIT WEED which is psychoactive... why wouldn't you feel different? Accept it, embrace it and live life as a non smoker.