Hopefully for good this time. Hi everyone . I found out about this forum through google searches struggling through my addiction and withdrawals. I figured I could come in and post here to get advice and support from those who has quit successfully. Reading these forums has helped me so much,so I hope to help someone one day as well.
Here is my story. I first started smoking weed when I was 15. The first time I got stoned I fell in love with weed and thought to myself why isnt this legal and alcohol is? I didnt really start abusing weed until I was about 20-21. I would go through months/weeks of everyday use,stop then go back to using it again. During these years I knew I was addicted to the feeling of smoking weed and I tried to stop many times but I failed. I told myself I can stop anytime.When I did,i would only stop for a few weeks then go back to it again. Each time I went back to smoking weed my habit got strong and stronger. I started buying more,looking for it all the time and thinking of getting stoned all the time. Most of my life has been a blur,I do not have a clear memory of all the years I have been smoking . I have lost very meaningful relationships with loving girfriends because of weed. They saw a good side of me,but they always told me that weed doesnt make me better and it actually makes me more aggresive.
The thing about weed is,you THINK you need it to improve your life and personality.This is the delusion of marijuana.But it is the complete opposite,when you smoke weed you numb your real emotions and it isnt the illusion. So I never learned to cope with my emotions. Here I am at 28 and I feel like a teenager still. Anyway.I have always been athletic throughout my whole life,so I stay in shape throughout the year and eat very healthy. I thought weed would be a part of my life,just like working out and eating healthy. I have attempted to quit weed so many times I've lost count.This is when you KNOW when you are an addict. You know deep inside you want to stop,but you cant.The plant has full control of you and sadly this is the problem millions of stoners are facing but they are in denial. The longest Ive stopped was 9 months,even then I was struggling mentally and emotionally . I gave into eating edibles after 9 months and everything went down hill.I started using everyday again and then I was dumped by my girlfriend of 3 years,which made things worse.
To cut the story short,I've smoked weed everyday for over 2 years since my breakup. I was severely depressed because my girlfriend left me and my habit just picked up from there. I've gone 2 years of smoking everyday,maybe I had a day here and there when I couldnt get it but my life depended on it. I would smoke all day everyday. I did everything stoned. Workout stoned,go to the beach stoned,have sex stoned. I knew I had a problem and I knew I had to quit. Well here I am.3 weeks clean today,I stopped cold Turkey .Here are some Withdrawals Ive noticed.
-Anxiety
-Sleep problems
-Severe mood swings (from happy to angry or sad )
-breakdowns
-severe lash of anger for at people for no reason
-getting mad at strangers in my mind for no reason
-depersonalization (fish bowl effect)
-Hopelessness
-Forgetfulness
-Loss of Libido
-Loss of concentration
-Vivid dreams
-Feel extremely slow
-Slight headaches
-Night sweats
Since Im an athlete and workout everyday,I believe my detox is going well because im sleeping 6-8 hours a night.Third week my sleep started getting better.However Im using 5htp to go to sleep everynight and I believe it is helping me alot. Im suprised my sleep is this well actually,it may be the fact that I have new 9-5 job and I get up early then workout like a horse at night and exhaust myself,combined with 5htp I can get some decent sleep.
Here some pros of quiting.
-Actual enjoyment of doing daily things
-Have more time to do things
-I have days where everything is going great and Im happy
-More clarity of mind
-Enjoying music and working out once again
-Started to engaging in more conversations with random people or strangers
-My face is starting to look better and gaining its glow back.
-Im getting in really good physical shape.
What Im really worried about is the mood swings,I feel like I have caused permanent brain damage. I have days where everything is amazing,then all of a sudden my life is miserable and Im hopeless. Then Some days I wake up angry as **** at the the whole world and hate everyone. I know this is life where not everyday is great,but the hopeless can be pretty freaking bad. Id lash out my mom for no reason. Ive had a few breakdowns where i felt suicidal but they were quick to pass by. Crying actually made me feel better.
Im going to remain strong no matter what and never touch that sh** again because it has ruined my life and my full potential of what im capable of . Thanks to a loving family,I am not homeless and I have a decent job now. I would like some feedback on those who has quit weed for good,like a few years. The loss of concentration and mental fog is worrying me,but im not going to hop on meds that pretty much poison and just have numbing effects. I can do this with mental determination and physical exercise.I also seem to stutter and cant put my words together like I used to. I feel retarded at times but I know my mind is rewiring itself and I hope to God it will get better.
Well there is my story,I hope someone can read this and not make the same mistakes as I did. It has cost me thousands of dollars in the courthouse and lost women I loved. Weed is a drug,just like any other drug,it may not kill you but it will steal your life away from you.There is life outside of weed,they are billions of people who do not smoke weed and they are happy. Weed is not God given.If it was God given it wouldnt cause fear or paranoia or delusional thoughts. I have nothing against trying it to expand your mind,that would be a limited use of maybe less than 10 times. We all know what happens when you try to use weed to expand your mind.People like me get hooked and get stop using it. Those who say weed isnt addicting,well it sure hell is.