I don't know what's going on with me. But I have been so angry with my mom for a very long time now.
She worked really hard and fed me and my brother well and made sure that we did whatever we wanted to try while growing up.
But I don't know since when, I realized that I don't have any memories of my mother and I hanging out or doing anything which a mother and daughter would do... I have zero memory of those....
Instead, I only remember how she was unhappy that my grandma wasn't treating her well and that my father wasn't a good husband and etc.....
I have no respect for my mother..... and I hate myself for it.. I am verbally abusive to her and I say really really really horrible things to her...
And today i just had a huge melt down... I smashed a lot of things and trashed my apartment while on the phone with her... I know she feels like she can't get to me or understand me anymore...and probably dont know what to do with me....
I literally passed out on the phone because of my anger and she finally came to me with my father. She cleaned the place up and left.... but i needed more than just her coming to clean for me and cook for me... but it seems like that's what she thinks what being a good mother is about... I did confront her before...but whatever she says just made me extra angry.....
I am a grown woman and i shouldn't being so needy with my mother... but i constantly want her to care for me and all those things i didn't get to do with her while growing up has made me extra angry whenever i think about her.....
I don't know what's wrong with me... and i am on the verge of killing myself... i feel so worthless and helpless and hopeless....
Please help.. and help me make sense of all of this and why am i feeling like this.....