by Opinion » Sat Nov 30, 2019 12:57 am
@ FlyBy96 - I am beyond heart broken for you. I personally know all too well what happens when a woman has a hysterectomy, as I had one at the young age of 33, and am now almost 10 years post op. I am also very sorry that you and your wife were not warned before hand of the horrific consequences of having this surgery done. Sadly, this is all too common with these Gynecologysts. They are not honest with women about the horrific side effects, and many women go into this surgery not knowing the full scope of what will happen afterwards. Forgive me for going into graphic detail, but I just want to help you understand what happens to women who have this done.The cervical canal (cervix) connects the interior of the vagina and the cavity of the body of uterus. If her cervix is removed, then it is no different than a man getting half of his penis cut off. So without a cervix a woman has loss of pressure and stimulation during sex. If a woman gets her uterus removed, then this is also the same affect as a man getting half his penis removed, or loss of his prostate. The loss of a women's uterus creates loss of engorgement, and orgasmic contraction during sex. The removal of a woman's uterus and cervix is considered a full hysterectomy. If a woman has her ovaries removed than this is considered female castration, and is the same as a man having his testicles removed. If a woman is castrated, she no longer has testosterone in her body, and as a result has no sex drive. These are VERY important sex organs that a woman needs her entire life. Without these important hormone producing organs, a woman is left in a broken body, that cannot function properly. Again, my apologies for being so graphic in my detail, but people have to be educated and understand just how awful and serious this is. Also, when the uterus is removed and the powerful uterine ligaments are cut, the entire torso collapses within 18 to 24 months post op, which causes the ribs to slowly descend and rest on the hips. There is no longer a buffer between the ribs and hips known as the waist. For me personally, this has caused chronic hip, back and neck pain, as I no longer have my uterus supporting my skeletal structure and spine. This side affect was never told to me, and it has been brutal! You and your wife should contact Norah at the HERS (Hysterectomy Education Resource Services) foundation, she will be able to counsel you both. Also, please google "Skeletal and anatomical changes after Hysterectomy" It is a excellent article by Hormones Matter. There is another article titled "Hysterectomy bad for the Heart and More" by Hormones Matter this is also very informative. Again, my sincere sympathy for what you and your wife are going through. Hysterectomy has not only devastating effects on women, but on Men and their families as well. You sound like a nice man really loves his wife, and it absolutely infuriates me that you both were not warned before hand of these horrific side affects. I am so sorry for what you are going through. May God Bless you both during this very difficult time.