pljames wrote:My wife has Lymphedema. I see her going bad every day with her disease plus two heal wounds connected as well. It brakes my heart. So I got mad. Her doctors and myself cannot dp anything to help her. How do I overcome this anger. I love her and there's nothing I can do to help her. Paul
Hello,
I don't know if you are still following this thread and reading the replies. If you are, I would like to add to my initial response that you can feel free to PM me and i can give you some information that has helped ME in my own personal health struggles.
Recently, I have made another go at doing research about my health issues, and trying some alternative ways to improve my well-being. I have done this in the past and have been extremely frustrated with the lack of progress I had made. Likewise, dealing with doctors has also been frustrating, and resulted in little improvement.
However, I really dove deeply into research this time around, determined to find SOME way to improve my health, as it had become more than I could stand, and I am tired of burdening my husband. We both deserve the best lives possible - as individuals, and as a couple. It is very difficult to live in physical pain - and it is very difficult to watch my husband suffer, both because he wishes he could help me and feels pained that he cannot, and because too often, certain things fall on him to take care of because I am unable to do it myself.
Anyway, this time around, I am incredibly happy to report that my efforts have resulted in some
real, tangible improvements and I am feeling
noticeably better! I am feeling more encouraged than I ever have! I have tried SO MANY THINGS over the years with no results, or worse, they made me feel even more awful physically. I am truly over the moon with joy that I seem to have found some relatively simple ways to feel better.
So, if you would like to PM me, I will be more than happy to share with you some things that I have done that have been helpful to me. I know how frustrating and devastating it can be to live under circumstances of poor health, and it would be my absolute pleasure to share what I have learned with you both.
If I do not respond immediately please don't think I have forgotten about you. I can't always rely on this computer to run smoothly and I have been a bit busy lately as well.
My best wishes to you both!
Don't give up!
Peace.