by federico91 » Wed Jan 25, 2017 5:16 am
I think that all men have a feminine side, Nowadays it is a fact, women have a male side, and men have a female side, There are women who play American football, boxing, And men who weave, or do any activity that previously could be considered only of women
It happened to me once, not to feel sexually attracted to men, but to feel as if I were in love with a man, a friend, Made me doubt my sexuality
But over time, when I met gay men, I realized that I did not like men, in the sexual sense, but I also have to admit that I was raised with the idea of being a "macho alpha", very structured, rude , Of little feelings, very forced, very repressed, partly because the young people are like this, they make fun of people, when we are young we are all like that, we make fun of the gay, men compete to evaluate "who is the More macho ", and things like that, that generates a conditioning
I think it is important to accept the feminine side of one, without implying having a sexual inclination for men, I do not know, a part inside one says "strive to be the best man of the woman of your dreams" and another part Says "relax and you are simply an integral human, with its masculine and feminine side"
For example a long time ago I remember having a girlfriend who liked to write what she thought and felt in a personal diary, for my part I never did, I always found that activity as something exclusively of women, But when I incorporate the habit, it helps me a lot, to get to know my emotions better, it helps me to express myself better, to understand myself better,
I like to play the guitar and sometimes I sing keenly like a woman, for example with the song of adele "hello", I allow myself, Without condemning me, I think we all have a child inside, Repressed, full of orders, and sometimes it is good to get him to play, without judging or condemning him or saying "This is girls and this is boys"
Sometimes I also dance like a woman when no one sees me, But I'm just playing, Fantasizing, I do not take it as something serious, I like women, Sexually I am attracted to women
But for some men I sometimes feel more understood, and that makes me feel love, emotional affinity, mental affinity, a greater affinity in those dimensions, usually I have difficulties to understand myself with a woman, difficulties to feel that fellowship that friendship that I feel sometimes being with a friend