So, you all prob heard my rants by now------admittingly my world is changing and it would be nice to have a friend, A friend mind you. My best friend is states away but we still talk all the time and have known eachother since we were teens. I have never ever felt around her like I do most other girls. I find most girls to be very hard to get along with on a friend level. Coworker level fine, a little beyond that, sure...hang out once in a while , ok...but like bff ? nope. Can you decipher?
My Best Friend:
Shes -- Independent, very very chill/calm, easily laughs at herself, loyal as heck, not showy, very down to earth, creative, playful, affectionate, adventurous, open-minded, strict standards--granted, doesnt make the best choices sometimes but takes the punch and rolls with it, a little too "free" sometimes,
Girl/sis in law that is trying to make all of us like the tv show friends: loud, arrogant, one side minded, judgemental, tries to buy you, overbearring, does show some care, is not flashy which is good, not much in common at all, over steps a little too much, kinda gives me a headach even if shes doing nothing wrong.
Girls in general that attempted friendships - loud, bossy, flashy, full of themselves, quick to be catty and toss you under the buss, more interested in the latest HBO gossip then like..I duno anything I can relate too that is, just like a swarm of beez , like overwhelming too much.
What makes MY friend different then most girls? is she a mutant or something? Why cant I find another person like her? Its not that I dont want to, I go into thigns initially being very open, like helping someone out with a issue, or dying somones hair , etc..then like...they turn into control freaks and seem very all about themselves.....and why dont ppl take the time to get to know ppl instead of "oh I met you for a day we are bffs now, Im gonna tell you whats wrong with the way you cook and demand you go to my party etc etc etc".......to me its like calm down, let me get to know you and trust you, vise versa before we start doing all that...but..nooooooooo ( I seem so childish Im sure lol)