ive been living with my b/friend for almost 2 years now with my 4 yr old daughter.were good together and he loves my girl dearly but im so annoyed that he never hardly helps with the practical side of parenthood.hes great with her in other ways but i wish he would take responsability too.ive spoke to him about this but his answer was"its just the way i am" we were trying for another child(9months of trying) but ive changed my mind and now im back on the pill.ive told him why,and that id be left to do everything with 2 kids im not accepting that. i get sooo angry as hes lazy too.intimicy?1 or 2 a week depending if HE feels like it.im tired of talking to him about all this sh*t but he is a good guy other than that and i love him and so does my daughter(not her real dad) he has to live with my mood swings so am i being punished for this? hes quite a secretive person and it doesnt work with paranoid people like me! im forever having doubts..do i really love him?will this relationship last?
i think he sees it as,ive got to accept his laziness,his selfishness sometimes and lack of responsability for everything.he has a point in some way?! any advice anyone at all?