Girlfriend threw me because my IQ is low

My EX-GF (topic about her ) have high IQ, but she is have kids and she older that me, and she have this polygamous genetic. These are the reasons why she agreed to be my girlfriend.

But i think low IQ for male it's too terrible and make me very unattractive for romantic relationships.

Grelok wrote:where i can take girlfriend with same IQ? (80-90)

I ask this for the future, because i planning for married. But i don't planning to have children's

My IQ is very Low too its sad what can be done?

desperate788 wrote:My IQ is very Low too its sad what can be done?

I think if i find girlfriend with same IQ we can be married

Why do you want to marry? Actually its more appropriate when couples have similar iq

Grelok wrote:So it's really hard to have long term relationships with low IQ? (my IQ is 86, with average for my country 100)

And where i can take girlfriend with same IQ? (80-90)

A girl with a man of eq pays no mind to his iq, as what does it matter? All desired is desired, ultimately, for how one feels in the attaining of said desired ‘thing’.
You feel amazing everyday, every girl you walk by is attracted, as that is what they most want.
To most, it is an utter mystery that one can be in love without another, without a thing at all, yet it is the truth.
The difference, the change, lies in no longer thinking about yourself (because thoughts aren’t actually ever about yourself)... and instead understanding the emotions you are experiencing, such that you recognize how you are creating them... and began to consciously do so.

Go to Actuality Of Being, read The Emotional Scale.

As you read that, feel the shifts in tension and relaxation, from the shifting of thinking inwardly (about yourself), and outwardly, about what you desire to create & experience.

Liberate yourself from this matrix.

Intelligence can't be tested by I.Q. Think about it. Do you test speed of rational deduction, or do you look at depth? What about linguistic, association, harmonic, imagination?
Personally I discovered my own intelligence is mostly theoretical as opposed to applied as a skill. My deductions are slow and prolonged. Never employ me as an air traffic controller unless you seek crashed aircraft.
A vital aspect to development of intellect is as follows, and this is just my view:
(1) You need quiet and time alone as too much noise prevents concentration.
(2) You need "active" loading of your brain, not passive. "Active" means solving problems by yourself. Not just quickly referencing on Google. "Passive" is just allowing information as a spectator, i.e. watching films.
(3) Environment matters a lot. Junk media, games, Facebook culture I see as not helpful to developing potential or talent.
(4) Above all. Social media dumbed down intelligence dramatically in my view. Example: Einstein visits Facebook and posts his theory of relativity. He doesn't get any "likes" so the idea is rejected. Conclusion: Social Media programmed millions of people to subjugate logic to instinctive emotion. That is, what isn't liked gets shelved. Worse than that, Social Media is the champion of conformity and censors information that isn't "liked" by the establishment. Put simply, "likes" never had anything to do with advancement of science - and never will do.

"Yes yes yes…it’s an overload of constant media it’s impossible to focus on one thing. Humans are not meant to learn this way..are brains loose the ability to memorize, the attention span is shortened immensely. Find your way without your GPS try a map for a week. We are addicted to our phones, and lost with out them. How many telephone numbers do you have memorized? Do you recall how many you had when you were young..tons and tons of them. Now maybe 1–3 We are co-dependent,and dumbing down."

Accept, accept, accept. One day somebody will accept you too.