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Most relationships exploit each other to get what they want from the other person. Usually that means approval from the other person. If they don't get it, they either exploit further, run away, or wake up and stop accept their own truth of exploitation. This last option requires truth, which exploi...

desperate788 wrote:After all i assumed that my depression is easing what may not be fact i fear i have to take these meds all my life

It is the meds that eases your depression.

Forget about IQ tests. As long as you aim for something, you are not fitting it as much as you want to. Everybody experiences a profound truth for themselves, regardless if it is insignificants to others. It is those revelations that our so-called IQ hits the roof. You are trying to cram in what you...

Easy Does It. Stay soft and gentle towards your tasks. It helps you to stay on track with your processes to get to the end. If you focus down the track you will trip over, because you're not looking at where you are going (the processes). Focus on taking it easy along the path and the end result wil...

Accept, accept, accept. One day somebody will accept you too.

First of all, you are not a story about what you have done, or what others have said about you. These stories are collected and remember by the ego. It does this to maintain validity, where in fact it is invalid. Ego is just a fabricated story for the mind to make sense of itself. That is why the eg...

Hi all My issue is one I have had my entire life, but only recently has it started to ruin my life. I am the only daughter of a woman who I believe has various childlike/attachment disorders due to her parents nasty divorce when she was a child. I am now 27 years old and nearing 28. My 28th birthda...

This is more of a psychological question I guess. It would be nice to know what the hell is wrong with my mind that causes this to happen. Ever since I can remember, I have had ‘friends’ who have treated me very badly, but I remain friends with them. I don’t like it when they treat me badly, but I ...

Wallmar wrote:... I'm not sure if I would insult her, that would result into a split...

It is you who does not want to let go.
To let go is to stop hanging on.

Every person has the right to go their own way, regardless if you understand it or not.
I would accept the situation and move on.

To suggest anything that may be accepted by another which causes any sort of tension within them is unethical.

Basically, anything other than being loving, is potentially tensive.

Beware that what you expect to get from your investment. Whenever we make an investment we usually expect a return worthy of our investment. If we don't, we get disappointed. Not because the return was not true but the return was not what we expected. Is it better to invest in knowledge or in knowin...

Thank you for explaining. I wish this was referred to in the original post. It reminds my of certain symptoms of alcoholism, such as delusions of grandeur, egomania, and an obsession for self-exploitation. It is a form of insanity, because the active alcoholic does not see this. As they say, when yo...

...Let me explain you a few things. This is an inflamatory thread that challenges people to debunk my argument of being the most important person ever. It is meant to generate emotional reactions and it is meant as a challenge. ... What is the point you are trying to make, exactly? If you have anyt...

Jealousy is a symptom of being scared, it is not an 'either' concept. Jealous is the result of a frustrated ambition. It is a negative manifestation of desire. You want something someone else has. There is no relation between being jealous and being afraid. First of all you are getting jealousy mix...