Hello,
Here is the commonly known definition of anger:
anger
[ang-ger]
noun
1.
a strong feeling of displeasure and belligerence aroused by a wrong; wrath; ire.
2.
Chiefly British Dialect. pain or smart, as of a sore.
3.
Obsolete. grief; trouble.
verb (used with object)
4.
to arouse anger or wrath in.
5.
Chiefly British Dialect. to cause to smart; inflame.
verb (used without object)
6.
to become angry :
He angers with little provocation.
Since this is the uncommon knowledge forum, and the anticipated outcome of this forum is to enable and empower people to make things manifest in their lives, has anyone here interpreted anger as an awakening signal, rather than the textbook dictionary definition?
Said another way, how can you use the emotion of anger as an empowering signal rather than a negative one? To me, to handle and manage anger, let's first look at the medical definition of the word "apathy."
apathy ap·a·thy (āp'ə-thē)
n.
Lack of interest, concern, or emotion; indifference.
Source: The American Heritage® Stedman's Medical Dictionary
So, to me, when apathy and anger collide- as when someone wants to originate and impose (solicited or unsolicited) a thought on your mindset ; and you simply have a lack of interest, concern, or emotional indifference, when someone is introducing this thought or behavior; do you now have choice as to how you will interpret their thought? Could anger be used as the holding pattern of that thought until it passes through your due diligence process?
I look at anger as a tool. I embrace and channel anger to serve me while I'm processing the new option of reality, and whether I should accept or reject it, based on my filters. It's a signal to me which means something beyond my scope of awareness is approaching my reality, so I should become less apathetic at this time and wake up and see what is headed my way. I should look at it, based on my current understanding of reality and my perspective, and decide whether or not I should incorporate that new stimulus, or reject it.
To me, and in my opinion, most people become angry simply because there's a collision of realitites. Doesn't mean it's positive or negative, anger is just a tool of emotions in my toolbelt to interpret, in most cases, my reality in relation to someone else's. S/He may have said or did something I may or may not agree with. But I have the right, and responsibility, to control my own thoughts and feelings and see what's in my control, and not in my control; from which to handle, or disconnect.
I just wanted to put that out there to see what anyone else's perceptions are in relation to mine.
This mindset works for me, so I wanted to share. Please challenge and test for yourself. Thank you.