Somestressedguy wrote: YOU MUST take into consideration that people that have similar situations with me AREN'T mentally developed for independence as their attempts to take flight have always been stifled!
A hypothetical, that is a different version of Candid's...
WHAT IF...
A natural disaster strikes and life as you have known it for 25 years ends tomorrow? No more parents, the family business has been destroyed. You have nothing. You just die, because you "AREN'T" mentally developed to take care of yourself?
I don't think so. You "start over". You take the skills you have developed for over 25 years and move forward in life.
The idea that you can't escape your parents is only you wanting to beat the drum that you are mentally incapable of independence. And you don't blame yourself for this, you blame everyone but yourself. Okay...fair enough. You are the victim. You are not to blame. Now...again I ask...when does that stop? When do you begin to start taking even 1% responsibility for your future?
LEAVE. Like Candid, you will be okay.