Real and honest insight, openness, compassion and love are key in life, not generalization.
We differ in that 100% it seems.
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But about her being "in Love" and wanting it to work out.... well, I don't want to be the one to break it to you, but there are two things you should know -- Santa Claus and Love are not real.
That is pretty sad in my eyes.
I do believe in love, and recognizing it and understanding it enriches my life. Its not about 'being in love', but about love.
LOVE... what everyone knows about romantic love... well that is SEXUAL BONDING. It is Animal Hormones kicking in.
Maybe in your life, which is probably why you fail to understand the deeper part of it. That is missing out.
My guess is that she would not BE in your situation. The Moment she saw that her boyfriend had only be 'keeping it together' long enough to get her into bed, but soon after had a complete melt down -- a Package of Damaged Goods that He MUST have known he was already dealing with when he met you.
We actually know each other for years already and have had mostly 90% good times, with fun, humor, traveling, good things and lots of happy moments. We still have that.
Also, when we met we had many open talks and he told me everything about himself, as I did about myself as well.
You generalize things, and are using your imagination to create a story here, that is not my story. You make suggestions 'constantly', that have nothing to do with my life.
Oh, and who is that with the Other Advice... what was it exactly.... let me remember... "And if your boyfriend picks up a hatchet and is about to bludgeon you to death with it, well, you tell him in a firm voice that you find that simply unacceptable, and if you do not lose too much blood first, you will absolutely insist upon leaving the room".
Such imagination....
Again, .. maybe too much horror movies?
Sorry but for me it has no point to reply to comments like these any longer. It has nothing to do with the reality. And it has nothing to do with me. There is no intelligence or anything constructive in there.