laureat wrote: i have to participate... if thats what she likes, if thats what makes her feel good , feel special. Sending me pics and telling her she looks hot and so, to make her happy
True.
If someone wants you to give them a golden shower (piss on them), if that is what makes them feel good, special, etc. then for that particular relationship if you want to make them happy, then you have to do what you have to do, right? Or maybe it is an issue of being incompatible.
While an extreme example, the same rules apply to sexting. You have two options to meet a persons needs:
-1- Try to figure out why they like golden showers/sexting and try to persuade them to eliminate that particular fetish/need from their life as to accommodate your needs or;
-2- Accept the incompatibility in the relationship and move on. Maybe a different person will be a better fit for them as well as you.