Jorainbow wrote:Thanks Roady i was saying it from a professional point of view not because i believe it. I am looking elsewhere with recommendations. Of course im angry at my husband but im an intelligent woman and can see that he isnt a full blown psycopath which the counsellor was saying.
We can of course start a discussion about the word "professional".
You are visiting a "professional" counselor, but what does that mean to you?
That you can fully trust him on every word he is saying?
I once met a "professional" counselor who was try to let me believe things about myself, just because he didn't know anything about my problem. But he was too proud to tell me the truth: "Sorry but I can't help you. I didn't have the knowledge to help you". So after all, this man wasn't pleased to help others, he only was pleased to earn some money.
Now I don't give 1 penny for his opinion. I have learned that I have to think for myself where-ever I be and no matter who is helping me (doctor, counselor, pastor, dentist, notary or whatever service is granted to me).
What actually is the reason that you go to a counselor for your husband?
Why isn't she going herself?