moonlightress wrote: Right now I’m doing “nothing”, just swimming in cognitive dissonance. There’s been ample evidence of my uncertainty in this thread. I’ve just admitted to sitting, right now, in another pile of uncertainty, over a blow to my worldview.
If you are so uncertain, what gives you such certainty of my being clearly “very offended”? You are not even certain about your own feelings, but you believe you have certainty regarding how another person feels sitting behind a plastic screen and keyboard in a small coffee shop in Zhangjiagang, China? You lack certainty about yourself, but you have certainty about me? Does that make any sense?
What gives you such certainty that I’m in a corner? Is it because that is how you believe that you would feel if in my position? What if I’m not in that corner? How certain are you that I’m in a corner?
moonlightress wrote:
You, however, have never waivered in your own certainty.Richard@DecisionSkills wrote: Even then, certainty is never certain. In other words, being capable of tolerating a certain degree of uncertainty is vital to success.
Reread the above more than once. In your own post you claim that I never waiver from my own certainty, yet quote me saying ‘certainty is never certain’. You quote me admitting a need to tolerate uncertainty. How do you believe I never waiver, yet at the same time quote me in the exact same post saying certainty is never certain? Do you believe when I say certainty is never certainty or that tolerance of a certain degree of uncertainty applies only to you and not to me?
How many times have I said in this thread, ‘in my opinion’? You think an opinion equates to a person stating an unequivocal, unwavering certainty?
How certain are you that I have never waivered?
moonlightress wrote:
you show compassion for the poor security guard, and demonstrate impressive insight in identifying with him. You didn't do that last time Jimmy talked about him;
I’m not a big fan of checkers.
moonlightress wrote:
You were invited to laugh with us, and earn some respect by showing a little humbleness and ability to laugh at yourself,
That presupposes quite a few things moonlightress.
moonlightress wrote:
Pleased to be of service.
I have already offered my appreciation, but will do so again. You have been of service in more ways than one. What other threads have been this much fun? What other threads have been anything other than the typical ask a question, get advice, leave? You have participated in some of them. Not that there is anything wrong with that, after all every thread eventually ends, but just the simple threads that don’t go anywhere are of no real service to me. There is no exploration, no real substance, no engaging discourse. So thanks.
How certain are you?